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Well that's the thing.
I want nothing whatsoever to do with this person, ever.
They've been out of my life for a good long while, and that's great. And now they've popped up to write a fucking memoir about the time when I was in their life.
I was told/warned yesterday that this project is already happening, and to expect some contact in order to get permission for publication of these letters.
I really don't want to get into, or add to, or initiate any kind of Thing with them. I was hoping that I could simply and quietly refuse to comply, and that would be the end. It looks like refusing would add fuel to the fire. But I really really don't want to just roll over and say Yes.
Refuse and have them publish anyway? This would give them added impetus and add all sorts of yummy drama for them.
Or agree and then they can interpret and re-interpret to their hearts desire.
The really amusing thing about it is that if/when this memoir is published, my version of events suddenly becomes far more fascinating than it would otherwise have been