Don't think I even made a direct reference. The assumption was all yours. Tut tut, naughty.
But you're right here. I did make an assumption, a wrong one. However if you weren't judging derf, you were making judgments about others.
Don't think I even made a direct reference. The assumption was all yours. Tut tut, naughty.

I'm not talking about being a bit skint and not being able to go down the pub until payday but real poverty.
As many will know i live in a small village in central Java, Indonesia. Here there are many families that live on a lot less than $2 a day. We are talking simple, and often half wrecked, wooden shacks with dirt floors and not much inside.
No running water, no electricity and often, no food.
I just wondered how many on the forum have actually seen this sort of thing with their own eyes and so are able to understand it.
I think he's making the point that you're rather judgemental about the British, ff.
You do seem to talk about 'typical British attitudes' and stuff with the same degree of judgement that you're railing against.
There's an irony there, all right.
We lived for three months in a paper bag in a septic tank. We used to have to get up at six in the morning, clean the paper bag, eat a crust of stale bread, go to work down t' mill, fourteen hours a day, week-in week-out, for sixpence a week, and when we got home our Dad would thrash us to sleep wi' his belt.
We used to have to get out of the lake at six o'clock in the morning, clean the lake, eat a handful of 'ot gravel, work twenty hour day at mill for tuppence a month, come home, and Dad would thrash us to sleep with a broken bottle, if we were lucky
Well, of course, we had it tough. We used to 'ave to get up out of shoebox at twelve o'clock at night and lick road clean wit' tongue. We had two bits of cold gravel, worked twenty-four hours a day at mill for sixpence every four years, and when we got home our Dad would slice us in two wit' bread knife.
I had to get up in the morning at ten o'clock at night half an hour before I went to bed, drink a cup of sulphuric acid, work twenty-nine hours a day down mill, and pay mill owner for permission to come to work, and when we got home, our Dad and our mother would kill us and dance about on our graves singing Hallelujah.

The closest to me are just 1 km down the road ...[/QUOTE]
The closest to me is about 100 yards away - bloke living in a tiny cabin cruiser, no heating, (even when it was minus five last week) no electricity and a broken outboard motor. There are about two dozen boaters living like this in London, many of them have drug/drink problems meaning any money goes on that and not on coal and food.
There was also a man living up a tree in a makeshift treehouse not very long ago and a man living in a tent on the marsh (found dead last month at the age of 31).
The main diffference between here and Indonesia is that these people can all get free healthcare if they want it - and that's a big difference. Also in London, theres a handful living like this, in other countries, its millions.
I've traveled through the southern states and have seen some very poor areas. I couldn't believe that people lived like that the States. It's almost mind-boggling to think things are going to get worse for them.
For "real poverty", I just have to walk around any large city and see families living on the streets. Or go to a first nations reserve.
Real poverty exists everywhere.
Why do people think the above is unique to 'poor' countries?
Having an open house, with relatives and neighbours popping in unannounced (usually around dinner time) was a huge part of my childhood in London. We supported an extended family, including elderly 'aunties' (who of course were not related) and the neighbours provided the local creche.
The rate of migration, property values and the sheer size of London may mitigate against long-term settled communities, but people don't move to Britain and suddenly lose the habits of a lifetime and their culture.
I've traveled through the southern states and have seen some very poor areas. I couldn't believe that people lived like that the States. It's almost mind-boggling to think things are going to get worse for them.
For "real poverty", I just have to walk around any large city and see families living on the streets. Or go to a first nations reserve.
Real poverty exists everywhere.
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Well, i am british, so i'm talking about myself too.
But yes, perhaps i'm being hypocritical, i can see that. However, i think it's impossible for us to avoid this, however much we might try. I also think that british people are a pretty judgmental lot compared to other peoples i've met.

This is the thing. Perhaps immigrant communities have it, but (and I know I may incur the wrath of the liberaliti here) white people in dislocated areas like London generally don't, precisely because their areas are always changing. I've never been that favourable to all-out multiculturalism, precisely for this reason. I see 'alienating the local population' as hardly a good thing.
I'm not talking about being a bit skint and not being able to go down the pub until payday but real poverty.
As many will know i live in a small village in central Java, Indonesia. Here there are many families that live on a lot less than $2 a day. We are talking simple, and often half wrecked, wooden shacks with dirt floors and not much inside.
No running water, no electricity and often, no food.
I just wondered how many on the forum have actually seen this sort of thing with their own eyes and so are able to understand it.
Here's some pics of the flat my poor (in Chinese terms) have just managed to move into with their life savings
One bedroom: (complete with poster of RD Jr on wall)
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Living room:
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This is why I sometimes get cynical about the whole 'democracy' thing.
They've gone from abject slumlike poverty to that, have the poor in India made a similar transformation?
FFS many people can't afford a flat like that in London these days.
We are being conned.
totally agree with RD about the democracy thing. it's such a fucking lie that britain is one of the richest and freeest countries in the world, i think most people would give up the right to vote for councillors and prime ministers in exchange for a decent house and a job
and no fucker ever voted for our current PM anyway,
According to the idiotic OP, no-one in this country can be poor because that only means 'not having enough money to go down the pub' apparently.

yes and no.
as i i've seen it as you have.
understand it nah and neither do you.
to understand it you have to live it and have a comparitor ie used to earn £100,000 + PA now earn £2 a day.
you claim you understand it what kind of cultureal realtivist ponce claims that...
you're a fucking joke.