Funny, I can't believe how apolitical your comments are. They are overwhelmingly vacuous statements of the obvious dressed up as insight.
I don't see anything particularly positive about the EU, however her hopes for how it would develop were not fully realised, far from it. Hence, it could not be considered a part of her legacy. Which was the original point, not how neo-liberalism (in various forms) is still massively dominant.
As to the 'selfish attitudes', I unsurprisingly disagree. I dont disagree that the opportunities to express any kind of real solidarity are obviously massively reduced, but would maintain that there is a stronger desire to find a way to express them than there has been for many years.
There is an extent to which you are right, I suppose, in that there are a good number of people whose hopes were raised by her removal that the world was about to change back again. And now some of them will be depressed and thinking there is no alternative, and have given up on even trying. They have belatedly come to accept Thatcherism. However, I think they are generally of a certain age (ie had work experience pre-Thatcher), and are now shrinking in number.
At the same time tho, there are also vast numbers of people attemtping to find ways to recreate some kind of community and solidarity. A hell of a lot of these are, I think even we would agree, complete toss/liberal bollocks/utopian fantasies, and will be ultimately fruitless. However, they are honest attempts, and are an indication that their is still a very strong desire to express some kind of solidarity.
It's been said various times - quite possibly by yourself - that we are in a 'back to Year Zero' position where we nede to start from scratch again, and I agree with that. We are still looking around for productive ways to organise and 'solidarise', for re-gaining the strength we have as a class. If Thatchers legacy was as strong as you state/imply, then that wouldn't be happening.