Taffy isn't a derogative term tho is it.
You've really lost your marbles today, haven't you?
I find it derogatory.
I'm certainly impressed with your attempt at a face saving 'double bluff,' although I fear you've failed to convince many people.*facepalm*
You Didn't think I was being serious did you?
I find it derogatory.
Yep.



I'm certainly impressed with your attempt at a face saving 'double bluff,' although I fear you've failed to convince many people.
The English get called Wankers from the other 3 but thats not the same
My Welsh Brother in law has a personalised number plate TAF5Y (or summat like that)
hardly the work of an insulted ex pat is it![]()
My Welsh Brother in law has a personalised number plate TAF5Y (or summat like that)
hardly the work of an insulted ex pat is it![]()
The difference is that he can call himself that if he wants. Same as some Asian kids have taken to calling each other pakis.
It's entirely different if someone else uses the term. The recipient decides if they find loaded, derogatory terms offensive - not the person using them.
Sure, and when I was a kid in the Eighties I knew a black fella called Chalky; some people play along cos its easier some dont.
I don't think those 2 points can be compared TBH
I don't think those 2 points can be compared with a Welshman being called Taffy TBH
Why not?
You've decided what's offensive or not, have you?
No I just don't regard Taffy as offensive.
Maybe it's the amount of Welshman i have met who call themselves Taff
or the fact I've never heard a Welshman say it is a derogative term or refer to it as such
certainly not the same as nigga or paki
or the fact I've never heard a Welshman say it is a derogative term or refer to it as such
Ity doesnt matter what you think to be frank, its up to the recipient to decide what they find offensive or not.
yeah but by that reckoning your leaving yourself open to the PC brigade where ANYTHING can be offensive.
I prefer the common sense route
If my Welsh brother in law goes to bussiness meetings showing off his car with TAF5Y as the number plate proud as punch
then common sense tells me theres not much derogative about the term
yeah but by that reckoning your leaving yourself open to the PC brigade where ANYTHING can be offensive.
I prefer the common sense route
If my Welsh brother in law goes to bussiness meetings showing off his car with TAF5Y as the number plate proud as punch
then common sense tells me theres not much derogative about the term
Thats about all we need to know.

It's not PC brigade you idiot. It's some Welsh people telling you it's fucking offensive and you going 'la la la I'm not listening cos I've got a welsh brother in law'.
Christ.
thats not what I said at all, and there no need to call me an idiot as I am listening, so calm down a bit!
FFS!
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You're not listening at all, that's the point. It's like deja vu from another thread, South African terms or summat.
you still here?
shame


LOL!
thats wasn't me not listening that time
anyway, how am I not listening?
What do you want me to say!
I go through 32 years of life never being told Taffy is a derogative term
then get told it is
I see
I've learnt that some people find the term derogative!
now what?