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Any thread about what "middle class" people eat is inevitably just going to be people sneering at the middle classes. In fact, I challenge you to suggest some "middle class" dishes without sneering.
Most working class people have been encouraged to aspire to middle class status, home ownership, further education and a general lifestyle by marketing people and governments for decades, if not centuries.
The food you eat has always been very representative of your social status. It still is. We're all constantly persuaded to treat ourselves to grub with posh names and pretty packets that is often twice the price of an equivalent product from Iceland.
It's seems to be even worse with baby foods. The general theme is that the more expensive, aspirational, luxury foods not only taste better, but are actually better for you. This is rarely true.
On the other hand, you could say that the real middle class folk are well educated and see through the false imagery and buy organic fruit and vegetables where possible and even choose to spend more on ethically produced foods. Perhaps this is the true middle class food of today? The posh crap down at Waitrose is just a waste of money that fools the working classes.
Traditionally, Mrs Beaton played a big role in the new development of the new middle classes. The book of household management was an absolute must in any family home with middle class aspirations.
The class system still exists in the UK. So, why pretend that the rich, the poor and the heavily in debt to the bank don't eat different food and live a different lifestyle?
I rarely take class status as a measure of anything, but I remember going to friends houses for dinner and eating with funky habitat knives and forks, using pepper mills, feasting on Italian cuisine and a healthy pudding. At home, as teenagers we had to cook our own meals. More often than not, that meant frozen pizza and chips. Italian - yes, but without the same level of sophistication. That was until a friends mum taught me how to make spaghetti bolognese and various other pasta dishes.
Ironically, I grew up on a manufacturing dairy farm making organic, all natural, very expensive goats, cows and sheep milk products for sale in middle class healthfood shops. Pudding was often better than what the rich kids were eating.