I'm not sure what this means. Because I call you a wanker shortly after I've shown you a photo of one of my kids sticking her middle finger up I'm accusing you of something? What an odd and pretty horrible thing to say. Dozens of people in real life and on the internet see my child every day. She's 3. She's rarely more than about 5 metres from a parent or childminder. Anyone can access a whole library of pictures of strangers' kids by making 50 posts over 3 weeks on a thread which predates those restrictions on viewing it by three years. I seriously see nothing but you getting in a froth about the froth you think I'm in. And I don't drink.