I didn’t know what to do about this thread and planned to leave it, maybe for a month, maybe for the season. I’m grateful someone has taken steps.
I saw – before Christmas – Matt was planning to come along to the curry night and was very much looking forward to meeting him; I hoped we’d share some real football banter over a few beers and a bite, and also to enjoy his enthusiasm for sport and writing and his family. He couldn’t come along and so I never met him. We exchanged a few PM’s but our interaction mainly took place in these team-season threads over a few years.
This Internet thing is a funny old business but it is still people and still a part of peoples’ lives. You also do get a strong sense of those you share the space with. I’m certain he was a good man, and equally certain he would have been a great father for that boy over the coming years. He didn’t have a malicious thought nor a reactive temper. Matt was hugely generous in nature and spirit.
I will greatly miss him popping up on here with a grin, a positive message and a sense of humour. He was one of the very good guys. Respect Matt, and may your family stay safe.