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You know once upon a time only three years ago I boasted that every job I ever went for I got and now... I can't even muster the strength to bother trying. I'm nearly thirty and am in so much debt that a pension or anything is out of the question.

I don't normally get pissed at failed job interviews but this one bothered me as I really wanted it and I could have done it standing on my head - only I find it hard to articulate myself in interviews. Anyone who knows me will know that I am a bundle of nerves until it passes. I never used to be, something changed inside me that made me unsure of myself. I used to be so confident that I was probably cocky now I can't even look at myself in the mirror with out feeling contempt.

Feel shit :(
 
Firky,

Having problems sending it as the file is too big. Will email the most useful intro bits to see what you make of them .

Regards

PR
 
firky said:
I find it hard to articulate myself in interviews. Anyone who knows me will know that I am a bundle of nerves until it passes. I never used to be, something changed inside me that made me unsure of myself. I used to be so confident that I was probably cocky now I can't even look at myself in the mirror with out feeling contempt.

Feel shit :(

That has stunned me. We don't know each other on here but when I see your name on a thread I always have a look to see what you've said because it's always funny or interesting. To hear you feel like that is amazing to me.

I bet it's just interview technique you are having trouble with. It's not your CV, otherwise you wouldn't get an interview in the first place

I would insist on feedback and work on that for the next interview - not going to try give some shit eating encouragement/advice so going to shut up but do get help on IV technique because I'm sure thats all it is.
 
firky said:
Turned down for another job that I had to do a 700 mile round trip for the interview. I don't know why I f'ing bother - nearly 18 months I have been unemployed now. :(

You should be glad you didn't get it.

That's a killer of a commute.
 
Here, firks, have some brackets.

(((((firky)))))

Really sorry that you have had a set back, but don't give up. Now seems to be the time for people to get new jobs, judging from some other threads on these boards.

I have been doing careers counselling for many years, and to different groups of people. If you want me to look at your cv, I would be happy to. If you do, PM me, and I will give you an email address where you can send it.

It's also good idea to ask for feedback as to why you didn't get the job, although I know it is difficult to ask that question...
 
firks, very quickly - don't let the Glastonbury comedown get to ya mate.

I know there's wider issues than that to deal with but try and deal with them without the massive serotonin depletion yeah?

:)
 
you can get all tony robbins stuff on torrents not that I'd do that as its stealing :D
or theres always the legion :rolleyes:
the employment and training manager at my hostel didn't appreciate the recruitment material I got from the legion some people have no sense of humor:rolleyes:
But when your expected to do job skills training with a chaotic drug users :rolleyes:
 
firky said:
Be my guest - I am sure you could do with a laugh :D




Pete's safe, he just gets a bad time because he doesn't arse lick urbanites :)

i know a company that empolys anyone.

straight away.

its shopfitting work so u can live anywhere.
 
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