AnnO'Neemus
Is so vanilla
Yes, it's to do with that whole thing about if the daughter marries, then she joins the bloke's family.RenegadeDog said:...- Further to that, I believe pulling here is easier than Korea. Many Koreans don’t like Korean women going with foreign men. Bizarrely in China they are more protective about their men going out with foreign women. Those evil loose foreign whores could corrupt their lovely innocent sons, or something. ...
Whereas if a Chinese bloke marries, his wife joins his family.
It's all to do with the family line and heritage.
Or as my ex put it, something to do with parents objecting to their sons "polluting"
the family blood line. 
The only way of a Chinese son redeeming himself from the prospect of polluting the family blood line is to ensure the family blood line is continued, i.e. the continuation of a polluted family blood line is better than no continuation of the family blood line.
Or, again as my ex put it, it's not possible to introduce a foreign woman to his folks by saying we're getting married, congratulations you're gaining a daughter in law. The way to do it is to say: Congratulations! You're going to be grandparents!
Erm, btw, I'm afraid the mother's a lao wai. 
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