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tgho said:Who am I to judge. But he's got over 7,000 posts to his name, and that seems to do the trick so I've heard.
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tgho said:Who am I to judge. But he's got over 7,000 posts to his name, and that seems to do the trick so I've heard.
Badger Kitten said:but they are no more primed than anyone here, who has read my first post and is disagreeing with me?

kyser said:And how do you know that talking to ANYONE outside of their cell wouldn't have helped? That's pretty presumptious don't you think?
but there's no indication counselling or talking to someone at CALM would have made any difference to stopping a suicide terrorist cell carrying out its mission, is there?
Badger Kitten said:but they are no more primed than anyone here, who has read my first post and is disagreeing with me?
wiskey said:except the big box at the top of your blog that says you are a 7/7 survivor.
i'm not having a go. just disagreeing![]()
kyser_soze said:Both the replies to your blog were clearly a response to your blog and associated comments, which means they weren't responding to the ad, they were responding to you and your comments. Very, very different thing.
Prompted response is VERY different from unprompted.

Like fuck you were. See you jackpot.tgho said:Not guilty boss. I was lured here by a well-established and, dare I say 'respected' poster.
editor said:Like fuck you were. See you jackpot.
Badger Kitten said:No it isn't - you read my opening post here, how come your response is not a prompted response? There is no difference at all.![]()
BK said:Originally Posted by 2 readers when I blogged about it
kyser_soze said:You blogged about it, they read the blog and responded to your comments about the ad - in other words they didn't see the ad in isolation, they were responding (if you've written anything similar on you blog to your first post here) to your comments on the ad - what's to say they would have even drawn out that comparison had it not been prompted?
And my replies ARE prompted response (despite largely being about the replies to your blog) about it - I'm disagreeing with you. Had I seen the ad in isolation I doubt I'd have paid any attention to it beyond 'Hmm, interesting use of a 7/7 image related to suicide, bet that'll have the 7/7 victims' groups quoting their outrage in the press'.
Having re-read your post, you clearly don't know what the difference between prompted an unprompted response is:
Unprompted response is the viewers IMMEDIATE thoughts on seeing an ad. Prompted response is ANY response that has some form of prior context. Your comments in the blog meant that those two replies weren't a direct, unprompted response to the ad, they were a response to the ad as mediated by your blog comments.
Badger Kitten said:No it isn't - you read my opening post here, how come your response is not a prompted response? There is no difference at all.![]()
Jonti said:The directors of the Charity are a bunch of tosspots.
Badger Kitten said:Well I am sorry to link to a story in the Evil Standard, but the file of the pic is too big for me to upload, so here is the link.
CALM ( Campaign Against Living Miserably) is a charity seeking to raise awareness of suicide in young men. A praiseworthy initiative, I think. So what the fuck are they doing with this STUPID poster?
Poster shows:
Picture of exploded No.30 bus.
Strapline 'Last year, four suicidal British men got out attention. Unfortunately, 983 others didn't.'
At the bottom of the advertisement are the words 'help stop suicide'.
I think this is utterly crass for several reasons:
Apart from upsetting people including survivors and families, and other people affected by 7/7, some of whom may have considered suicide this last year, it is also likely to upset its target audience which is 15-35 year old young men ( specifically young men apparently) considering suicide.
If I was a suicidal young man, I would be extremely angry at any comparison with a suicide bomber. Homicide-suicide is not at all the same as suffering from a depressive illness which can make life unbearable.
They have chosen completely the wrong example to make a point.
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I am sorry if it seems insensitive to raise this right now. I am very much in favour of getting help and support to anyone who is feeling depressed and considering suicide, and that is why internet sites, for example, can be incredibly helpful. I think CALM's aims are good. I cannot understand why Ogilvie and Mather came up with this creative. The tragic death of almost a thousand young men a year is shocking enough, without having to use mass murderers in the advertising campaign to make a point.
They didn't even run this in media specifically-targeted at young men. They are running it on billboards, all over the country, many of them in London as I understand it. So anyone can see it.
They said that they wanted to be ''controversial''. Stupid fuckers.
Anyway. What do you think? Is it a reasonable albeit shocking ad and am I over-reacting? Or is it crap?
sorry but i see you aredrawing a comparison which you feel is vaild about something which isn't itself projecting that image quite a few people on this thread have poitned out that this isn't the comparison being made in great detaisl but you choose not to recognise this matter and instead fall back on the 7/7 is sacroscant and above use in this manner argument to claim it's cheapening the event by use in it's ads...Badger Kitten said:Fine. Move on. This is not a sympathy thread, in fact, if I could have posted under another name I would hav d one, because the main point I am making is that suicide-homicide is not suicide and that is why, in my ex-profesional opinion, this is a shit ad.
I am not actually talking about 7/7 at all if you have a read: I am talking about suicide in young men and an anti suicide charity's advertising strategy? And why it feels the need to use 7/7 when it is not related to a problem that is shocking enough without cheap links to mass murder.
Do you see? No, you don't. Whatever.
Badger Kitten said:The 7/7 bombers are not considered ''suicidal young men'', that is not what they are known for: they are considered terrorist murderers. Homicide not suicde was their primary objective, and there are no reports of them being depressed or suicidal in way that makes them comporable to the near-1000 young men who died through suicide last year. None at all.
And therefore I think the whole premise of the ad is wrong, as well as being insensitive and likely to alienate the target audience.
wiskey said:in that case we as a society need to stop referring to them as 'suicide bombers'. a 'suicide bomber' would be someone who got depressed, strapped explosives to themselves went into a field and blew themselves up. they wouldnt kill anybody but themselves and perhaps a beetle or two.
who is the target audience? you seem to belive its young men. i dont think so. i think its everyone. young man who kill themselves do it under the noses of those who love them quite often, and although i think calm are doing good work in trying to persuade them to seek help i think its also trying to highlight that this happens and that there are warning signs to everyone.
suicide is a particularly emotive subject and one which almost everyone has something to say about. the reason the people on your blog have been ailienated may not actually be because of the image on the advert. i'm not suggesting this is the case but they could be upset that more wasnt done before their loved one killed themselves, they may be angry that no one tried to reach out to them when they felt low. they might feel shame (they shouldnt but people do), there are any number of reasons people will be upset by this.
Badger Kitten said:This makes discussion rather pointless.