Frog: "I thought Rachamim was not religious.": I am not.
Briefly: I was born to a Sephardic/Mizraci Dad but Ashkenazi mom. mom's family were Bratslav/Breslov Chassidim, or the Dead Rebbe Chassdim as we are known at times, in English.
I was educated in thatw orld, fully.
As a youngster I joined a paramilitary, in Israel, and when I was 16 entered the army in Active Suty for Operation Peace for Galilee, the first LEbanon War I was 16 and the year was 1983.
The nation was on th brink of civil war. "Black Coat" as Charedim (religious Jews) are called, rioted every other day, even assasinating people over such tpics as the right to drive on Shabbat (Sabbath). In fact today your car can still get overturned and torched but then it was much more dangerous.
The army, always loyal to the nation, hated outwardly religious Jews since the creation of modern Israel because were still a very hardcore Socialist nation although we were about to make the transition.
Outwardly religious Jews did not serve. So...I shaved for the first time, had my peot (curly sidelocks) removed for the first time when they shaved my head completely (religious Jews almost always have shaved heads except for the side locks), and even stopped wearing my eepah (headcoverng).
What is so ironic though, is that now my Brigade, NACHAL, has a Charedi batallion!!! Times have changed so much.
"Reform.": No offence, but a terrible movement. there is no middle ground. You are either like me, knowingly or unknowingly living as an apostate, or like my Filipina convert wife, living a very kosher and righteous existence.
If we are aware of the Law, and reject the Law, we then reject G-D. We cannot change the Law to suit us, we must STRIVE (keyword) to conform to the Law.
Please, your faith is your business sister but please tell me you do not have Chanukkah Bushes...hahaha.