nonamenopackdrill said:
I don't agree with the second sentence. Discipline is the responsibility of the person dealing with it - but they need support. Passing something on is seen as a sign of weakness. If it's your problem, you need to be involved in the resolution.
I also fundamentally disagree that discipline is everything. Have you never seen a crap teacher have his kids scared and doing nothing. That's not a good teacher. Interesting lessons lead to good discipline - though of course behaviour management techniques are crucial - especially techniques that don't interrupt learning.
I think you're right about speaking to the line manager and even SLT. Tell them how you're feeling. And the most important person is the NQT mentor I think - who I hope is on SLT - who can fight tf's corner!
in the last five years, through actor workshopping, supply placements etc, i have worked in over 100 different uk schools - and i will tell you this: you can tell the ethos of the school within five minutes of walking through the doors. and it varies, massively.
imo a good SMT backs up teachers and has clearly demarcated standards that no kid can get away with crossing for any teacher.
I fundamentally disgree with your philosophy that referring serious discipline (or academic) problems upwards is "weak". It gives the pupil and their parents the unequivocal message that the school as a whole backs the teacher and the school as a whole finds the behaviour or whatever unacceptable. Lowly classroom teachers are often written off by pupils and parents as "having it in for" or "picking on" someone, or even being professionally incompetant.
the message in serious cases has to come cohesively and clearly. from the top.
it doesn't make the teacher seem weak - it makes the teacher seem like they have the whole schooll behind them, and that if you go against him/her, you will have to deal with the whole school. One teacher, phoning from a noisy staffroom during a snatched lunchbreak does not sound so strong, and certainly, IME, doesn't feel it.
on your other point, maybe you and i understand the word "discipline" differently.
my lessons are disciplined - and i know because my children have too much respect to do anything too disruptive or out of order. Because if their phone goes off, they hand it over without arguing - even though they know it will go in the safe for three months. Because when i tell them to sort their uniform out before the can come in, they do it. And sall this with a smile on my lips and never a voice raised.
That discipline allows me to teach interseting, dynamic lessons. A kid said to me last term, "we know we can't get away with anything with you" and yet they often tell me that they "really enjoyed that lesson" - bingo! that's success for me. And it's about having good discipline. And if a kid does cross the line in a minotr way, i deal with it. And if they do so repeatedly or very very disruptively, my HOD does. And if it's a real issue (aggressive language toward me etc) then it goes higher. documented for the kid's record every step of the way.
at my school if a kid gets more than 15 detentions in a term, or 35 in the year, they get a day's internal suspension and parents/carers have to come in for an interview.
That's excellent, IMPO.