I've taken this tack with some of my students too.spanglechick said:ok - this doesn't work for everyone, i know, but it's how i cope with a million similar irritations every single day at school:
smile and indulge them. they're enjoying music. they're making themselves happy and it really is harmless. they're often sharing music as a group experience. Now, I hate RnB, which it often is - and I hate the tinny sound of phone speakers - it isn't nice to hear, but neither, truthfully, is bus full of squealing three year olds singing tunelessly or asking interminable questions - and i always smile indulgently at that too. It's a survival strategy for the sake of my blood-pressure. I force myself not to care. I remind myself that it's nicer to like other people.
yes they're often adults, yes even teenagers should know better, but
- you aren't going to change them
- there are bigger, more important battles to fight
- what really is the harm to you?
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and within 6 months the bus network will be in crisis due to the financial problems the doubling of the frontline staff wage bill will causemilesy said:bring back conductors.
focus on a newsp\aper or book. block the sound out. It's easy.
who said anything about paying them? these will be community service conductors. the more tossers they sort out, the sooner they finish their commmunity service.

Nope, but I'd like one by my front door though\\(^o^)// said:they should fit one of these on every bus
http://www.compoundsecurity.co.uk/teenage_control_products.html

killer b said:or get a great big ghetto blaster and play some venetian snares back at 'em...
milesy said:that's not the only solution. you forgot setting a big gang of dobermans onto the offenders.
we should never get on the same busmilesy said:it is GOOD to have windows open on buses. especially when it's wet out, otherwise the bus just gets really really steamed up and you can't see out at all. get a bit of air in, moving around, rather than just breathing in stuffy other-people's-breath air.
it really annoys me when people DON'T open the windows.
I've never understood this stuffiness business. I never notice. I do notice a draught on the back of my neck though. I've always found it peculiar when people come upstairs, look miffed, and IMMEDIATELY open a tiny window. What is it that affects them so gravely that doesn't affect me? I never feel any different on a bus than outside but warmer and dryer.
in which case it will be very likely they will do this job as badly and sloppily as possilbe. and how wuill you monitor their en route performance?milesy said:who said anything about paying them? these will be community service conductors. the more tossers they sort out, the sooner they finish their commmunity service.