We've tried this 'let's talk about it' approach with racists many, many times in the past and the end result is always the same.
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I understand your frustration with this, but I dont think the 'end result' is what its about. Otherwise we would be agreeing with him that we might as well have a global suicide.
The end result is not why we type all this and the sole purpose of debate is not to convert people.
Also there probably are lots of racist forums on the net. But I dont think there are many where a racist man can fling his ideas into a largely non-racist pool. And survive.
I think by choosing Urban, he was trying to subconciously restore some balance within himself.
Even if he wasnt converted to our way of thinking, we could debate with him, and direct him to all the ways that he was ungrounded. Accepting them or not, he would still be standing in front of his mystery. This is helpful.
But then you dont believe that. Mystery is scary. Bit like an unknown Darkie, speaking an alien language.
Mystery used to be scary for me, and then I thought I had tamed it somehow. This was a temporary solution. I dont think we will ever restore justice, until we give it up.
Really ask yourself why you want to close your ears to this man. And then ask why again. and again. See how the mystery increases each time, and with it your wariness? You could utilise this to understand why he fears Darkies.