The Unseen said:
If someone is struggling to get by, it would be sensible of the mother and father of the child to take on the responsibility of there own child and not making the JSA claimant's position any more difficult than it needs to be. I know it sounds harsh, but ya have to look after yourself if nobody else is gonna help you out whilst you help them out. Why struggle?
True. Course, you could then end up with the parent ending up out of work because they've lost their childcare. One in, one out!
Family will always be there if they love you and you love them. But if you want to be more comfortable, you have to take steps towards making it comfortable. It ain't easy to accept i'm confident about that. I often ask Polish co workers what its like to be away from home, so far aswell, its sad but often they say they have to do it.
This is one that, personally, makes the least sense to me, but that's because I've never had a problem moving around. I only included it with the proviso that you're not even sure there'll be a job, or that it'll last. That could, for some people, mean that leaving your support network could swing the balance in favour of not taking the risk.
For the Polish workers, whether they get a job or not (and they seem to always get one - often at way below minimum wage), at least they have a chance to practice their English, which will help them in getting other jobs!
I hate to say it, cos i know how tough things can be sometimes, but if the government ain't gonna help you when you need it, assuming your able and capable of work, you've gotta help yourself. Scrimping and saving on certain things like electric usage (assuming a JSA claimant is paying there own way on electric), don't use the lights as much, use a blanket for heat etc... goto netto instead of tesco, or just buy Tesco Value stuff, might not be brilliant but it feeds you.
When I've been on JSA, I've done all that just to survive. Actually, I still do when I'm working, but one day, hopefully, that'll improve!
Whilst cutting back on costs and saving money, put it towards a first months rent and bond. Secure a job, then secure a flat, in a new area if needs be.
That's an awful lot of money to save when the money you have isn't enough to live on.
The social fund can help with that, but it would still leave you with a few hundred to save up.
New Deal, in my experience, varies greatly. I've been on a course that was awful (though this was many years ago) and taught on some that were great in some ways; they were interesting courses (basic skills, ESL and basic IT), or, at least, they were at my college, but the main people they helped were people who only needed a little leg-up, or a recent reference or something.
For those with really low basic skills, or those who could manage to pass a CLAIT + course but had other things that made them unattractive to employers, the courses rarely worked, to be honest.
(That's why I put up that thread about New Deal driving lessons before, because that was the only extra teachable skill I could think of that really would help people get jobs).
@heartofgold - I honestly do think you should give it a go. It might not be as shit as it was last time, and there's certainly no reason for the government fuck-up with your benefits to happen again.
I know how tough shit, minimum wage jobs can be, the racists, the biggots, the brawlers, the sexists, the low self esteem vibe, the aggression etc.. But if you keep your head about yourself and your goals, you can succeed. Working in tough environments like that boads well to better paid job employers. Its almost like Johnny employer thinks, 'they can handle that, this job is easy in comparison'. Mostly it is in my experience. It takes time ofcourse, but you've got time.
See, now, again, you're not making going back to work sound attractive.

If I misunderstood you before, I haven't this time!
Yeah, i find that quite interesting actually. If they had to do shit, they did it. Same as what i'm trying to get across, in modern britain. Its briliant we've got a welfare system, it gives people a chance, if they are able, to get back on there feet if thats what they really want.
I think I see what you're saying - not that you think people should have to do shit work, ideally, but that that's the way it currently is, so we have to roll with it? Is that anywhere near close?
The problem is that, sometimes, even shit work isn't feasable, either because of transport and the costs of working (though working tax credit can help with that, and not just for parents, which is a start in improvng the system), or because someone else has got the job. So many shit jobs these days still need qualifications and experience, or, at least, knowing the right people.
