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worked it out now!
^^^moomoo, what has your daughter has done has truly made me smile. I feel all warm and fuzzy for you...


Bless her little socks - what an incredibly sweet thing to doBless her, she completely took charge (except when the bill came and they had charged for four adults instead of two adults, two children. I had to step in there otherwise she would have just paid it.). She even let me have 1/2 lager.
It was possibly one of the nicest things anyone has ever done for me.
I'm stuffed......



I got a card and a book. Actually my cousin wrote the book. Mr Poot apparently didn't know this.
Actually, I think my expectations were waaaay too high because I got excited and asked whether we could have take-away for once (we have it about 3 times a year). Mr Poot laughed at me. I got my own back by cooking an entirely vegan dinner (there was no choice- I hadn't been to the supermarket as I'd wrongly thought my husband might do it as Pootboy and I were out for most of the day shopping for his birthday present). Anyway, I poured myself the last of the wine (ha!) and now I feel better. Mr Poot clearly felt guilty as he went on a big rant about how I'm not his mother so he doesn't owe me any favours.
And no one liked the vegan dinner.
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Mr Poot sounds like a very rude man![]()

I may have been over-reacting because of the wine and the unnecessarily high expectations. I should point out that we have a toddler, so he was obviously present at the choosing of the book and the card, which is all that was required, really. I do sometimes go into "poor hard done by me" mode on these boards, by way of letting off steam. But, yeah, a take away would have been nice.![]()
I do that but still, it sounds like more effort could've been put inI may have been over-reacting because of the wine and the unnecessarily high expectations. I should point out that we have a toddler, so he was obviously present at the choosing of the book and the card, which is all that was required, really. I do sometimes go into "poor hard done by me" mode on these boards, by way of letting off steam. But, yeah, a take away would have been nice.![]()

Mr Madz just doesn't realise that all the time I was doing it I was fantasising about the toy boy I'm going to run off with 
Don't blame yourself. We all want to feel appreciated sometimes, there's nothing wrong with that. I really don't see your expectations as anything but reasonable.

I do that but still, it sounds like more effort could've been put in
Mind you, I've just cleaned the kitchen and I'm about to iron the uniforms for tomorrow - Amanada Holden's on the telly, can't miss his weekly 'date' with herMr Madz just doesn't realise that all the time I was doing it I was fantasising about the toy boy I'm going to run off with
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Would he notice before
a) Dinnertime or
b) He ran out of socks?


In my defence I had offered to take her out to lunch and she nixed it on the grounds that the restaurants would all be full of people doing the same thing, and I did make pudding and take her a pot plant.But, yeah, a take away would have been nice.![]()

