Louloubelle
Well-Known Member
So lets get this straight
you're not out at work but bump into a colleague at a gay bar
shortly afterwards you bump into 2 other colleagues at a metrosexual bar
has it occurred to you that most of your colleagues could be gay but just keeping quiet about it because of the bosses homophobia?
I ask as a gay surveyor friend who works in a big company in the city had amlmost exactly the same experience.
After the initial anxiety he found out that half his colleagues were gay and the other half were well up for raving in gay clubs and didn't give a toss about anyone's sexuality.
they all meet up together once a month or so and go out clubbing at the cross or some other gay club. Apparently the straight guys love coming to the gay clubs cos you meet nice women there without it being a meat market.
It's weird cos a couple of years back my friend was really anxious about people at work outing him, now he loves them all that they all have a great time together.
Hope your situation ends well too

you're not out at work but bump into a colleague at a gay bar
shortly afterwards you bump into 2 other colleagues at a metrosexual bar
has it occurred to you that most of your colleagues could be gay but just keeping quiet about it because of the bosses homophobia?
I ask as a gay surveyor friend who works in a big company in the city had amlmost exactly the same experience.
After the initial anxiety he found out that half his colleagues were gay and the other half were well up for raving in gay clubs and didn't give a toss about anyone's sexuality.
they all meet up together once a month or so and go out clubbing at the cross or some other gay club. Apparently the straight guys love coming to the gay clubs cos you meet nice women there without it being a meat market.
It's weird cos a couple of years back my friend was really anxious about people at work outing him, now he loves them all that they all have a great time together.
Hope your situation ends well too

Oh, and if its the "metrosexual club" I think it is then don't worry, no-one who matters that is gay goes there anyway.