Your crass straw man building is becoming as childlike as some of your other fellow travellers... You know we disagree on what counts as evidence... Its really silly to say that there isn't any.... You're as objective as mr Goebbels...
To add, a discussion of relativism in cards (I should know as I used to play 3 card brag and poker for ££), on one hand of 3 card brag, you could lose £3. In what sense is that a loss? You've lost £3, 10% of the amount you're willing to gamble on a nights cards, so you've still £27 and could 'win' more money back than you've lost. At the end of the nights gambling, you've lost your £30, and you've borrowed £20 and lost that too. An absolute loss? NO, you could still win more next time, even though you're £50 down. You're pissed off, true, but that doesn't stop you gambling again...
As for cards with children, I've played poker with kids 12 yrs/10 yrs, for money (ok, i agree that's naughty

) but it woz only pennies and they were ALL mine to begin with... Some hands were 'lost', some were 'won', they didn't have a problem with the relative approach I have... I would love to see you shouting at the kid, "you've absolutely lost" to see how small that made the kid and how much of a bastard that made you by sapping their confidence.
Relatavism in football - haven't all football fans at some stage said 'we didn't deserve to lose the match', they've not lost the league because of one match (and even if it was the last match of the season there's always next year), and the match could have turned on luck for a goal rather than skill anyway.