I'm quite glad this thread has been posted actually, as I've just got a cat and I needed a bit of advice.
She's about eight months old, and we've only had her just over two weeks. She's settled in reasonably well, so today my partner and I decided to let her out of the house for the first time. The previous owner had let her out on a cat leesh, so we gave it a go. We live on the upper level of a maisonette, and all was fine while she walked along the balcony and down the stairs. When she got into the front garden though she started running under bushes, and when I couldn't follow her, the leesh obviously pulled against her and she got very distressed, hissing at me. Eventually, I managed to coax her into the back garden, but she wasn't very happy still.
I don't think I'll be using the leesh again - she didn't take to it. Would it be better for me to let her out just normally, say in a weeks time? She's not very confident, and I'd probably have to go with her, but I don't mind that. I'm just very worried about her going out, in the same way Blagsta was.
Just thought I'd add, we tried the wood pellet cat litter and she really hasn't taken to it. Before, she happily used her litter tray, now she keeps pooing and weeing in the corner of the living room. I have to buy some more tomorrow.