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It's a measure of the amount of control a state has over citizens' lives. No state can ever be 'totally total' but in the DKRP it's as close to total as it gets. The songbun system dictates your work and family life and the threat of punishment to three generations ensures the vast majority will conform. During a mass show of grief like Sun Jong Il's funeral does it really matter what percentage of the mourners are a) truly loyal b) 'brainwashed' by their education or c) pretending to cry in order to conform? And what does 'agency' mean when the vast majority are excluded from any political discourse. There is definitely a proportion of the population that is loyal and positive about juche but when you can see your whole family from grandparents to grandchildren stuck in a labour camp for open dissent what does it matter? The Kim's are a family of tyrants pure and simple.
I've attempted an answer to your question and put it in context. Now how about you answer mine?
You talk as if questioning whether 'totalitarianism' is the best way to understand societies such as DPRK has to involve a downplaying or denying of the awfulness they are built on (such is the power of propaganda, perhaps...), as shown by your earlier loaded question (why that particular aspect btw?).
Your first reply was to a post that referred to a particular ahistorical understanding of totalitarianism that through western education and propaganda in liberal democracies after WWII had helped to produce a popular workaday understanding of particularly Communist-ruled societies. It lingers on to this day in some respects, and it's this vulgar use of it I was attacking. The agency that individuals or groups have does not just narrowly mean the ability to oppose. That's another aspect of this liberal view. They have to be either true-believers crudely described as being 'brainwashed' by some, or atomised cynics who offer passive resistance and carve out as best an independent life they can.
Anecdotally, my own challenging of some variation of such an understanding occurred by meeting Russians of several generations who lived in the USSR, but more relevant to this, people who lived in the Stalin era. Ordinary people (well a mixture of working class and lower intelligentsia). Unfortunately, even to liberals, real people are not ideologically sound.
We know Marxism-Leninism failed, we know its regimes (or regimes that at least started out using such a doctrinal framework) were, to us, unacceptably authoritarian, even if some might be uncomfortable with the idea that 'Stalinism' is a marginal variation of western modernity, sharing contemporary top-down developments with the west in terms of state intervention in areas of public health, education, housing etc, all perfectly compatible with forced labour camps, torture chambers and bulldozed mass graves. Though even on its own terms DPRK went beyond what it means to be recognisably Communist. Before the ruling elite jettisoned it for a more explicitly national politics. Looking at the degree of coercion used is important, but 'totalitarian' as a genuine type of society that emerged in the last century? I'm not convinced. It can be a useful concept, but it comes with baggage.
