My kid was always after the iron. I knew she would hurt herself if she ever managed to get it. I was always telling her but she refused to listen.
A very mild smack on her leg shocked her and she has never tried again.
After a little crying session she calmed down and came over to me for a hug. She knew she had done 'naughty' and wanted a cuddle so she knew I wasn't angry.
What is the greater abuse. allowing her to continue with likely harm or stopping her with very mild force?
Same goes for other bad behaviour. Early correction with a mild smack as a last resort can solve a lot of later life problems. Same goes for the cane at school.
Kept a lot of people out of trouble.
See what has happened now that option has gone.
Left wing idealism has caused many of the problems we see in UK society today.
I have never hit my child. Not once, and frankly, I would be utterly ashamed of myself if ever I did. He is 10 years old and I couldn't hope for a more considerate and thoughtful kid.
People lose their rags and do things they shouldn't, I understand that, but this kind of intellectualising of abuse is offensive and disgusting. There is no such thing as mild violence from an adult to a child. It's abuse and you should be ashamed of yourself.
Listen to yourself, Do you really want to argue that you think beating your child is the only way to teach her a personal safety lesson? There is, in your opinion, no better or more suitable way for you to give this child, who you love, this message? That's what you are saying?
You can honestly think of no better method to teach your child not to touch the iron but to beat her? Sounds like a crass lack of imagination frankly.
How about this.
Try keepiing the fucking iron away from your kid until she reaches an age when she understands not to touch it without you having to beat the message into her.
Supervise her until she gets it. Then, when you teach her it's dangerous she will get it. I promise, she will. While you're at it apologise to your kid for hitting her and promise yourself you will never do it again. If she pisses you off, take away her sweets. Hitting children is abuse, stop it.
All beating a child does is teach blind obedience through fear. It also teaches that violence is an appropriate solution to problems. Iv'e always tried to teach my kid to THINK for himself and to see the consequences of his actions for himself and others and I have done it without threat or violence. You know what? He's a great kid.
What is this rightwing bullshit, you don't hit or hurt the one you love. You teach them with love, or in my kids case this evening, take away Samurai Warriors till he gets the message.