It is very complex, I agree. I can't blame her for exploiting an existing market in order to make money for her soon-to-be-motherless boys, but then that market wouldn't exist if she hadn't made such a spectacle of herself one way or the other...the public, the media and the woman herself are all culpable to varying degrees, but then there is the hopefully positive side effect of raised awareness...
It's not for me to pronounce the whole circus good or bad, I just find it terribly upsetting because every headline I see brings back the experience of watching my brother die in intensely painful detail. I was awake at 3am this morning reliving it.