Apologies for entering the thread so late. It's a topic I've thought about before too.
Bob_the_lost said:
Example: Woman too evil and nasty to find husband, finds online sperm donor. (Yes it's a crap example). Weak/Constantly ill bloke finds woman who can see the inner goodness (as opposed to being the last choice in ye olde caveman days).
Well, they're still examples of survival of the fittest, really. That term - 'survival of the fittest' - is apt to confuse all of us. All it means it that those who fit best it the world will reproduce; it has nothing to do with physical abilities, health or genetic suitability. If a woman can afford to raise a baby on her own after finding an online sperm donor (btw, I'm pleased that nobody chose to take your devil's advocate examples the wrong way

), then she is fit for the world she lives in. If an ill man can still find a woman who wants to have kids with him, then, one way or another, he is genetically fit for the world he lives in.
Evolution isn't an upward spiral to a better species. It's just changing to fit the environment. In most of the world these days, physical ability is not as important as intellectual ability. Thus we are changing, slowly, in the sense that there are far more physically 'unsuitable' people reproducing now because they're intellectually suitable.
There's also the accelerated rate of migration around the world. That cannot be discounted when considering evolution. The Western world may no longer be excluding people from reproduction because of their physical infirmaties, but it is now including people from a much wider genetic background.
I think I know where you're coming from, though. Were any of the previous varities of hominids capable of thinking that 'we are the end product' in the same way that homo sapiens does? I'm not sure they were. They sure weren't capable of controlling it. We certainly are, however, and I bet that (barring worldwide disasters) we wouldn't
let our descendants change into something noticeably different to the way we are now.
Evolution is still happening, but slowly - it's just an adjustment; I don't think that there will ever be another homo [whatever] after homo sapiens.