Orang Utan said:I don't see why it would - people don't begrudge people getting help for an ickle baby
I don't see why it is!Belushi said:I would - its not help its blatant discrimination.
What thread, what country?Belushi said:Surprised on another thread when a poster said that parents are paid more than the childless in his organisation, is this legal? dont think I've ever come across it before.
I'd be hopping mad if that was the case in my workplace!
Orang Utan said:I don't see why it is!
Yes, but I don't see what's wrong with helping out someone when they have a kid.zenie said:Never heard of positive discrimination?

Orang Utan said:I don't see why it is!
Fullyplumped said:What thread, what country?
Yes, but I don't see what's wrong with helping out someone when they have a kid.

I don't have a kid thoughBelushi said:Because your being paid less than someone who's doing exactly the same job as you!
People choose to be a carer or not. Not saying it's an easy choice, but it is a choice.Orang Utan said:No it's not
No they don't - some people have no choice at all - do you think my Dad should just dump my disabled Mum in a home and fuck off?BiddlyBee said:People choose to be a carer or not. Not saying it's an easy choice, but it is a choice.
The spirit of Keith Joseph lives on, I see.Kanda said:If you don't like it, don't take the job
Is that a bad thing?zenie said:OU You're far too nice!
Orang Utan said:I don't have a kid though
Orang Utan said:Is that a bad thing?
Excellent post, I was waiting for a clever, articulate person to come alongBrainaddict said:I think it's perfectly reasonable and I'm surprised people find it so objectionable. It seems people are so used to thinking individualistically that they see things only in terms of narrow individual rights and so this is 'discrimination'. To my mind, making sure kids are raised with a good quality of life is a social responsibility (i.e. something we should all ensure collectively) and I don't see why employers can't shoulder some of that.
It should be extended to other dependents for consistency of course.

No-one is! You may think that they are, but you come over as bolshy and unreasonable and I know what I'd rather be likezenie said:When someone's walking all over you and treating you like a doormat I think it might be yeh.
Yeah, you lose it when your youngest gets to 14Belushi said:What happens when the kids become independent, does the employer then cut the wages?
No need for you to be arsey with me. No I don't think he should, but I do think it is a choice he's made.Orang Utan said:No they don't - some people have no choice at all - do you think my Dad should just dump my disabled Mum in a home and fuck off?
And I think that kind of love should be rewarded, not punished.BiddlyBee said:No need for you to be arsey with me. No I don't think he should, but I do think it is a choice he's making becuase he loves her.
To my mind, making sure kids are raised with a good quality of life is a social responsibility (i.e. something we should all ensure collectively) and I don't see why employers can't shoulder some of that.
It should be extended to other dependents for consistency of course.
littlebabyjesus said:The spirit of Keith Joseph lives on, I see.
Thanks. Not illegal in the UK. Unless you could show it was indirect sex or disabliity or race discrimination, which would be difficult if parents of both sexes and all races and disability status who are parents were paid the same higher rate. Arrangements like this were very much more common in the UK until the Equal Pay Act, as was the custom of a woman being required to leave work on marriage.Belushi said:UK, OU's working at xmas thread.