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I really don't want to call this 'what your style says about you'...

Did a bit really.

Like I said.. only if you want it to. Read what miss_b wrote that I was replying to and it makes perfect sense.

I'm 30H/HH. I'm not sure I want them reduced - I don't like the idea of having elective surgery to stop other people gawking at me, and it won't solve my body issues cos they're in my head.

Plus I worry that, a lot like Samson, if I had them reduced nobody would like me anymore and my OH wouldn't love me :(

So I'm sorry to interrupt this mini love-in... but I think you're all getting your knickers twisted for nothing.
 
Stop back tracking- ok so you never directly said it, but your tone and flippancy gave it away for me....

Nah bollocks. I asked miss_b a question.. she answered it... and that was my reply to the answer she gave me. If someone wants to read anything else into it that's their own personal issues.. I can't help that.

You just wanna fight with me. It's that time of year again... our once a year argument about fuck all.

Admit it. :)
 
Nah bollocks. I asked miss_b a question.. she answered it... and that was my reply to the answer she gave me. If someone wants to read anything else into it that's their own personal issues.. I can't help that.

You just wanna fight with me. It's that time of year again... our once a year argument about fuck all.

Admit it. :)


nah..... i read it the same the way as Enid and i aint even got big tits - and i didnt like how flippantly you responded to her either, hidden behind that smarm of yours.....:D

NO contest= NO fight.....:cool:
 
and i didnt like how flippantly you responded to her either, hidden behind that smarm of yours.....:D

NO contest= NO fight.....:cool:

Yeah.. I get it... you didn't like the way I spoke to your mate (or whatever).

Well guess what..? I didn't like the way your mate spoke to me first when I wasn't even talking about her.

I thought I was being polite but clear.. obviously that means fuck all round these parts.
 
Like I said.. only if you want it to. Read what miss_b wrote that I was replying to and it makes perfect sense.

Well, see, in reply to a post which said things like
It's a nightmare finding clothes that fit me
I get leered at which makes me feel uncomfortable
I can't hide them and be 'me' instead of a walking life support system for my tits.
a tiny part of me thinks people like them more than me
i.e. stuff not worrying about whether men like them or not, but rather other issues, you reply
I've seen girls with huge boobs that look fantastic...
guys like girls who are cool with their bodies
take advantage of it
i.e. stuff to do with how much men like them. So, you know, that's sort of what I took from it.
 
Well, see, in reply to a post which said things like

i.e. stuff not worrying about whether men like them or not, but rather other issues, you reply

i.e. stuff to do with how much men like them. So, you know, that's sort of what I took from it.

Why did you have to selectively quote it instead of directly quoting? Because you don't have a leg to stand on.

What you mean is you didn't read it properly.. that's more or less what I thought.
 
Well, see, in reply to a post which said things like

i.e. stuff not worrying about whether men like them or not, you reply

i.e. stuff to do with how much men like them. So, you know, that's sort of what I took from it.


In a nutshell...:)

If i only i had a clue how to use the quote facillity with such skill, im sure its the reason i cant back my self up or come across coherent half the time....:D
 
Why did you have to selectively quote it instead of directly quoting? Because you don't have a leg to stand on.

You mean you didn't read it properly.. that's more or less what I thought.

No you are being naieve as to how it came across, whether it was itentional or not is pointless....
 
Why did you have to selectively quote it instead of directly quoting? Because you don't have a leg to stand on.

You mean you didn't read it properly.. that's more or less what I thought.

:D I've heard that one before here. "X." "You said X just there." "No, you didn't read it properly, I said Y, read it again, god :rolleyes:"
 
If i only i had a clue how to use the quote facillity with such skill, im sure its the reason i cant back my self up or come across coherent half the time....:D

It still doesn't say anything like what you think I've said. And it's nothing like what enid thinks I said. And although fridgemagnet is making out that what I wrote was all about what a guy thinks.. actually it was only one line at the end.

That's why selective quoting is dishonest.

So you've both just defeated your own arguments.

But whatever. :)
 

There's no point sitting here arguing with me that you didn't say the things that you said. I'm just trying to help you understand why your comments might have been taken... a little badly. Take it or leave it mate (and leaving it seems to be the preferred mode at the moment).
 
It still doesn't say anything like what you think I've said. And it's nothing like what enid thinks I said.

So you've both just defeated your own arguments.

But whatever. :)

Again- it was more your tone that what you said,oh and lack of empathy but id expect nothing else from you;)
 
There's no point sitting here arguing with me that you didn't say the things that you said. I'm just trying to help you understand why your comments might have been taken... a little badly. Take it or leave it mate (and leaving it seems to be the preferred mode at the moment).

I do understand why my comments have been taken that way.

It's what happens when someone jumps into a reply intended for someone else.

So thanks for the help.. but 'leave it' is really the only option.

:)
 
thats not my style- im just not impressed by flippancy....

I know it's not your style, betty. I think you're pretty cool as it goes. And pretty open and honest.

You're alright by me. :)

But sometimes, it seems to me, you've got a bit of mis-guided loyalty to your mates. They might be your mates, but it doesn't mean they can't be stroppy or wrong.

nuff said me tinks:)

Hope so.
 
I know it's not your style, betty. I think you're pretty cool as it goes. And pretty open and honest.

You're alright by me. :)

But sometimes, it seems to me, you've got a bit of mis-guided loyalty to your mates. They might be your mates, but it doesn't mean they can't be stroppy or wrong.



Hope so.

I dont know enid on urban or off the boards- i spoke as i saw- was about to post on thread when i saw what you were saying.....i dont do friends and cliques;)
 
Kizmet- you arguementative fucker, I say black is black. Prove me wrong:mad:


Sweaty- all pikeys are evil scum. Prove me wrong:mad:


Enid- Kizmet is right and you are totally wrong. Prove me wrong:mad:


World, Urban and the Internets. You are all fucking idiots. Prove me wrong:mad:
 
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