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I really don't want to call this 'what your style says about you'...

miss_b said:
It's a nightmare finding clothes that fit me rather than being hugely baggy and shapeless just to fit my boobs. I get leered at which makes me feel uncomfortable. They're so obvious I can't hide them and be 'me' instead of a walking life support system for my tits.
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I've probably got a lot of experience in how to be a huge tit.. but not much in how to dress 'em... but, if it helps, I've seen girls with huge boobs that look fantastic...

... and no matter how many times I hear all the justifications for boob reductions I can't help thinking... "but why? Oh God, WHY????"

I guess I think that drastic things like surgery are last resort stuff.. you know.. it's got to be easier and cheaper to change how you feel than cut chunks off yourself.

And if there's one thing I know is absolutely true... guys like girls who are cool with their bodies. Doesn't really matter that much what kind of body.


And a tiny part of me thinks people like them more than me, cos my personality ain't up to much
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For some people that may be true.. but take advantage of it - because most people's personalities aren't up to much.. so you got a bit of a headstart.

;)
 
Kizmet said:
... and no matter how many times I hear all the justifications for boob reductions I can't help thinking... "but why? Oh God, WHY????"
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Chronic pain is at the top of the list. Self consciousness. Not wanting to look like either a matron or frankly, a right slapper. Unwanted attention. If I had a pound for every time someone said a breast reduction was stupid :rolleyes:
 
Enid Laundromat said:
Chronic pain is at the top of the list. Self consciousness. Not wanting to look like either a matron or frankly, a right slapper. Unwanted attention. If I had a pound for every time someone said a breast reduction was stupid :rolleyes:
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Enid.. I know the reasons why. Does that not allow me to still lament the loss of objects of beauty? Regardless of how you feel about your boobs.. remember - some folk think they are amazing.

I've known plenty of women with large boobs.. some of whom have gone under the knife others who didn't. The back pain thing is clearly a damn good reason to go under the knife.. and I did very much say I felt it was a last resort.

And that's because IME the women I've known who worked on changing their attitudes to themselves seemed on the whole just as happy as those who had surgery.

Only with fewer side-effects.
 
Kizmet said:
Enid.. I know the reasons why. Does that not allow me to still lament the loss of objects of beauty? Regardless of how you feel about your boobs.. remember - some folk think they are amazing.
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No actually, that someone would know the reasons women have breast reductions and still "lament the loss of objects of beauty" makes me feel sick and angry.

My tits are not there for your fucking admiration thank you very much.

And that's because IME the women I've known who worked on changing their attitudes to themselves seemed on the whole just as happy as those who had surgery.

Only with fewer side-effects.
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You're chatting out of your arse Kizmet. Would other people suffering daily with physical afflictions - arthritis, sciatica, angina - also benefit from "changing their attitudes towards themselves"? Fuck off.
 
Enid Laundromat said:
No actually, that someone would know the reasons women have breast reductions and still "lament the loss of objects of beauty" makes me feel sick and angry.
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Why? If someone changed their skin colour because they felt self-conscious about being too dark I'd lament that too.

I generally think people should be as they are... although health reasons do make a difference.

My tits are not there for your fucking admiration thank you very much.
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What on earth does that mean?
 
Enid Laundromat said:
You're chatting out of your arse Kizmet. Would other people suffering daily with physical afflictions - arthritis, sciatica, angina - also benefit from "changing their attitudes towards themselves"? Fuck off.
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Yeah, sure I am Enid.. because every woman who has large boobs is exactly the same and suffers exactly the same problems. :rolleyes:

It doesn't seem to matter that I did mention that health reasons made a difference.. but obviously that passed you by.
 
Kizmet said:
Why? If someone changed their skin colour because they felt self-conscious about being too dark I'd lament that too.
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That's got fuck all to do with what I'm talking about. What are you on about?


Kizmet said:
What on earth does that mean?
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Kizmet said:
Regardless of how you feel about your boobs.. remember - some folk think they are amazing.
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Do you honestly think I give a fuck?
How dare you suggest that I'd consider that operation because I've got some kind of flawed attitude towards myself, rather than because I want to live without pain.
 
Enid Laundromat said:
That's got fuck all to do with what I'm talking about. What are you on about?
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What you're talking about is the cases of women who have large boobs and also suffer from severe physical pain from them that cannot be alleviated in any other way than surgery. That's quite a specific subset. I was being much more general.

They weren't actually the ones I was referring to. Because, as I said, in cases where there are health issues I'd consider that a last resort.

Do you honestly think I give a fuck?
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Honestly? In a way - yes.

How dare you suggest that I'd consider that operation because I've got some kind of flawed attitude towards myself, rather than because I want to live without pain.
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I don't think I did. I think you've read that into what I wrote yourself.

I thought it was clear that if you were in incredible pain and there was no other way to help then surgery would be an obvious option.

I didn't think it needed spelling out, really.
 
Kizmet it was more your tone as per usual- go back an read what you wrote from another perspective other than your own...

Im too lazy to follow fashion,and if my tits were too big and uncomfortable theyd be reduced quick smart..

Kizmet i take it you feel the same way about breast enlargement?
 
Carry on thinking that Kizmet, carry on arguing that women shouldn't elect to change their own bodies because you'd prefer them not to.
 
Sweaty Betty said:
Kizmet it was more your tone as per usual- go back an read what you wrote from another perspective other than your own...
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I can see how someone who already has issues with the subject might assume that I'm saying somethings that I am not.

But what do you want me to do about it?

Change the way I post in case someone somewhere takes offence at something I didn't say?

Kizmet i take it you feel the same way about breast enlargement?
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Very much so. In some ways more so.
 
Enid Laundromat said:
Carry on thinking that Kizmet, carry on arguing that women shouldn't elect to change their own bodies because you'd prefer them not to.
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Who said shouldn't? People can do whatever the hell they like to their bodies... and I can feel about it any way I like. Them's the rules.

I think, enid, you're replaying some argument you've had with someone else and not actually with me... Because I don't really disagree with most of what you're saying about yourself specifically.
 
Kizmet said:
Who said shouldn't?

I think, enid, you're replaying some argument you've had with someone else and not actually with me... Because I don't really disagree with most of what you're saying about yourself specifically.
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What bollocks. Stop turning your fucked up attitude into something about me.
 
Kizmet said:
Is that just a slightly less cliche'd way of saying 'whatever'?
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Id have told you to fuck off well before now:D

kizmet you came across like you were saying that big tits shouldnt be reduced as others see them as amazing, even though the person who owns them big tits is in pain and mental suffering....

can you see how that sounds ffs:hmm:
 
Enid Laundromat said:
Yeah, there's really no point in going round and round in circles with a selfish, thick skulled misogynist.
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Okay. When you find one, be sure to let me know. :)

Urban.. say that you wish people didn't have cosmetic surgery for non-essential reasons.. and it makes you a misogynist.

:D
 
Dunno what my 'personal style' says about me...............

i know my mum and sister think i should be more 'grown up and conventional for my age'...........whatever that is !
 
Sweaty Betty said:
Id have told you to fuck off well before now:D
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I'd have expected it from you... :p

kizmet you came across like you were saying that big tits shouldnt be reduced as others see them as amazing, even though the person who owns them big tits is in pain and mental suffering....

can you see how that sounds ffs:hmm:
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Show me where I said 'shouldn't'?
 
It might, you know, be considered a tad patronising to suggest that it's a bad thing that women have breast reductions because you like big tits. Just a thought.
 
Kizmet said:
I've probably got a lot of experience in how to be a huge tit.. but not much in how to dress 'em... but, if it helps, I've seen girls with huge boobs that look fantastic...

... and no matter how many times I hear all the justifications for boob reductions I can't help thinking... "but why? Oh God, WHY????"

I guess I think that drastic things like surgery are last resort stuff.. you know.. it's got to be easier and cheaper to change how you feel than cut chunks off yourself.

And if there's one thing I know is absolutely true... guys like girls who are cool with their bodies. Doesn't really matter that much what kind of body.




For some people that may be true.. but take advantage of it - because most people's personalities aren't up to much.. so you got a bit of a headstart.

;)
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ok you never said shouldnt, but its not hard to extract that you reckon it should be after all other avenues had been explored!!!!!!

You have a pair of massive breats and live with them for a day even- after the novelty has worn off and your done with playing with them while wanking yourself silly, you will soon see how cackhanded and insensitive you came across mate....;)
 
Only if you want it to.

That post you quoted was a direct reply to miss_b - she never once mentioned back pain.. and infact said that it wasn't about back pain.

She said it was much more to do with self-image issues.

Which is why the reply to her was about those issues.

I can't help it if enid then jumps onto it and makes it about her... can I?
 
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