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I don't exactly *feel* harrassed but...

Yetman said:
Errrrrgh, he sounds like a right twat. What have you replies been like though?
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Hmm, the reply to the cockney one was:

5t3IIa said:
Nevermind all that – are we going to lunch. I have my 2 for 1 vouchers and I’m hungry.

Wait a minute – you’re at home?! I bet you’ve still got your jammies on, you lucky swine.
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I shouldn't have mentioned his jammies should I? I'M ASKING FOR IT! :(:(
 
J – you are being a suggestive LOON and it must cease!

Ta
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Seems a bit jokey. It might stop some people but not others. Have you sent it?

Why not just say "Let's have a bit less of the innuendo shall we? It's not really appropriate for work colleagues."
 
dolly's gal said:
give him a chance? no. he's a prick. he shouldn't be engaging in sexual harrassment, should he? i mean, he's not so stupid that he doesn't realise that's what it is, does he? :confused:
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Yeah hairy muff I missed that second mail that he wrote coz I was writng my post .....

Tosser and he is out of order :mad: :mad:
 
If it were me, I'd probably say something like this...

Dear J

Look, I know we've enjoyed a giggle and it's generally good having you around, however I'm not really enjoying your emails, specifically the level of innuendo in them. I don't know if you just think you're being friendly, if this is the case then could you please stop? Because I'm not finding it very friendly, more, well, sleezy, and I don't really think it's appropriate for work.

Hopefully this is just a misunderstanding that can be cleared up now. :) For future though, perhaps you might want to think about how your emails could easily be interpreted by a lot of people/women....

5t3IIa
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5t3IIa said:
Hmm, the reply to the cockney one was:



I shouldn't have mentioned his jammies should I? I'M ASKING FOR IT! :(:(
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Course not - he should take the hint when you dont be as suggestive in your replies and fuck the fuck right off with his smarmy sleaze banterisms :mad:

Fair play for sending the email :D
 
Is he called Colin?

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Oh :(

I thought it was non-confrontational, didn't have a lot of needless scary-HR jargon and would probably work, and I can imagine following up with, if neccessary 'No, I'm serious, stop it' if he carried on and it would still be non-confrontational?

I know age doesn't particularly have anything to do with this but I'm 33 and do know how to look after myself :)
 
5t3IIa said:
I know age doesn't particularly have anything to do with this but I'm 33 and do know how to look after myself :)
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men/women of all ages are subject to sexual harrasment.

although i completely understand why you sent the email you sent.
 
5t3IIa said:
Oh :(

I thought it was non-confrontational, didn't have a lot of needless scary-HR jargon and would probably work, and I can imagine following up with, if neccessary 'No, I'm serious, stop it' if he carried on and it would still be non-confrontational?

I know age doesn't particularly have anything to do with this but I'm 33 and do know how to look after myself :)
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Well, hopefully it will work, and then it will have been a good email! :)

And you're right, you can always follow it up with something a bit sterner or explicit if you need to.
 
dolly's gal said:
men/women of all ages are subject to sexual harrasment.

although i completely understand why you sent the email you sent.
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Yeah. I thought I should clarify. We're both 33 and we're the same 'level' at work so it's not so much of a power thing, iyswim.


Oop, there he goes off for a meeting. No reply for a while then.
 
g'luck with it!
wonder what his reaction'll be? :)
i once got called a humorless lesbian in response to a similar situation :D
 
tufty79 said:
g'luck with it!
wonder what his reaction'll be? :)
i once got called a humorless lesbian in response to a similar situation :D
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Oh christ lolz, sorry - that tickled me :D

Reply!

J said:
Indeed, success doesn't just breed more success*, it breeds madness!

Ciao bella!
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* he really has had an excellent probabtionary period with the company and I'd slipped him a few compliments ;)

Seems like it worked, then? :)
 
tufty79 said:
i once got called a humorless lesbian in response to a similar situation :D
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Original :rolleyes:

I defo wouldn't be so tolerant in these situations but then I am known to be a bit aggressive about this sort of thing :o
 
i went on sick and never went back :)
me: 1 british gas: 0
's ok, it was my escape from seven years of callcentre hell :)

yup, hope it stays an innuendofreezone for ya, 5t3IIa
 
Did you just send the loon line, because not sure if I'm being thick, but the two emails don't really seem to go together. :confused:
 
SubZeroCat said:
Original :rolleyes:

I defo wouldn't be so tolerant in these situations but then I am known to be a bit aggressive about this sort of thing :o
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Frankly, I can't quite believe he could possibly mean it, or even mean it as a joke and risk me taking him seriously.

<-- self-esteem 'issue' cuz carrying teh xtra poundage :cool:
 
I think 5t3IIa should post him email on here and we should all mass perve him. ;)

Though he might actually enjoy that.
 
Agent Sparrow said:
Did you just send the loon line, because not sure if I'm being thick, but the two emails don't really seem to go together. :confused:
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Yes. I sent the loon line in reply to the cheeks and BBW one.

They don't go together, no but I suppose that's the point - if I replied in kind I'd be making it worse innit

:)
 
fair point
i was on the brink of leaving anyhow, so..
the fact that i don't work there anymore is good for me
the fact they don't hvae my fantastic phone skillz is bad for them.


the fact that i didn't report it is, yes, very very minus points for me.
edit: it wasn't bg who called me a humorless lesbian, it was one of their wanky employees.
 
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