How does one become a porn actress?

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Top Girl

So what would your porn name be i.e its your first pets name followed by your mother maiden name

Why in the name of god would any sane person put their mother's maiden name on the internet?!?!?! (add more ?!s for emphasis)

Does nobody realise what sorts of security implications this has got?

 

[revol68]

Oh please no don't go for them! Suicide Girls are a pile of utter shite (as a comapny). Yeah, their photos are pretty but they treat their workers (you know, the actual models) like complete shite. Like really, really badly. They fuck them over, pay terribly, expect you to do an incredible amount of unpaid work (all the blog stuff etc. to promote the "ooh look our models are real people" bollocks they try to sell) and their whole "feminist" thing is such crap.

Read this article if you don't believe me...

If yr really into letting strangers wank over you then why not try out an actual independant, woman run pin up site, that isn't syndicated by sodding Playboy, like Nofauxxx.com ?

yeah, it's funny how some people have been shocked to learn this about Suicide Girls. What I do think Suicide Girls exploits very well is the fact that by not being paid well for your photos and work you don't feel like your being pimped and that it's something purer than the commodity.

but yeah whats really fucked up about Suicide Girls is how it is claiming ownership over the photos the models did themselves and has threatened other websites from publishing anything critical of Suicide Girls.

I'm pleased to see the lovely India walked off in solidarity with the equally lovely Apnea.

Apnea's sets were some of the best on the site.

 

[Emma Herself]

precisely - the thing that makes it so "unique" (i.e. "our models are in control of their own images and they interact with all the punters through the site") is mostly down to how much they fuck over their models. And also theymake it out as if it's all run by a woman, which is mostly a lie.

It wasn't just ownership of the photos though - they're suing another softcore site for... using pink!

You know apnea has her own site now, right?

I won't ask if you've cancelled yr SG subscription yet revol

 

[pianistenvy]

If you're into exhibitionism, why not go to a swinger's club - plenty of opportunity to show off and be watched by other people. Might be better than being filmed. The ramifications of being filmed could hautn you for a long time afterwards... imagine if you regretted doing it in a few years, there would be a permanent record of it. It could be used against you in all sorts of ways, by future partners, employers etc...

 

[LilMissHissyFit]

Hard to know what to say in these circumstances

Hallmark don't make a card for the situation do they?
If they did it might say something like "Sorry your sister in law's a prostitute" and then inside "hey but look on the bright side! Your brother's unhappy about it and definitely not a pimp!"

Seriously,
How does your brother feel about it? Have you had much of a chance to talk to him?

My brother is the male version of a battered woman.... he just keeps wishing and hoping she will change.She beats him, rings the police claiming hes hurt her and then hes made to leave his house. we tried to get him to divorce her and he did go to a solicitor who gave him bad advice, told him he would have to give her 1/2 the house after less than a year of marriage - so he didnt. the longer the marriage goes on the longer he is likely to have to but he wont listen.

Meanwhile she empties his bank account to pay for 'her sick mothers treatment' in malaysia along with various other nasty things such as telling me his supposed sexual preferences and that he got an STD , neither of which i believe but even if I did they are nothing to do with me and wouldnt stop me wanting to know him ( which I think was her intention)
I believe she told my father what she 'did for a job' hoping he would be repulsed and refuse to speak to my brother any more.

I dont hate many people but I would be rather pleased if she had some sort of accident while crossing the road or something

shes leaving for 'home' in a few days supposedly for up to 4 months. I just wish there was something I could do. I even tried ringing the police and the immigration people and writing in with my suspicions but nothing was done

 

[Louloubelle]

My brother is the male version of a battered woman.... he just keeps wishing and hoping she will change.She beats him, rings the police claiming hes hurt her and then hes made to leave his house. we tried to get him to divorce her and he did go to a solicitor who gave him bad advice, told him he would have to give her 1/2 the house after less than a year of marriage - so he didnt. the longer the marriage goes on the longer he is likely to have to but he wont listen.

Meanwhile she empties his bank account to pay for 'her sick mothers treatment' in malaysia along with various other nasty things such as telling me his supposed sexual preferences and that he got an STD , neither of which i believe but even if I did they are nothing to do with me and wouldnt stop me wanting to know him ( which I think was her intention)
I believe she told my father what she 'did for a job' hoping he would be repulsed and refuse to speak to my brother any more.

I dont hate many people but I would be rather pleased if she had some sort of accident while crossing the road or something

shes leaving for 'home' in a few days supposedly for up to 4 months. I just wish there was something I could do. I even tried ringing the police and the immigration people and writing in with my suspicions but nothing was done

oh
dear



is he going with her?
if not them perhaps it's time for him to get some space and time to think and sort himself out
just like a battered woman he's probably going to alternate between feelings of love and hate.
Try not to get him to leave her so much. There's a bit of him that wants to leave her and a bit that wants to stay, if you 'carry' the bit that wants to leave it leaves him 'carrying' the bit that wants to stay.
Try defending her to him, or at least putting forward a begnign interpretation to her actions, it's much more likely to let him think about what's really going on that the other way round.
Let him know that you'll be there for him whatever he decides to do.
If you can ttake photos and keepo a diary of his injuries, and of any important events. this could be very important in the case of a divorce but also in the chance that he's charged with living off imoral earnings, which, as you describe it, could be a possibility.
Good luck

 

[bluestreak]

do suicide girls really make out that it's a women run site? i had an SG account for a while and i was never under any illusions that it wasn't owned and run by a couple. thought it was pretty obvious to anyone who reads the FAQ.

as for the other criticism, well, it's a business i guess. has to protect the brand innit! still, most people seem happy with it. i guess it's just the girls who want to use an amateur site to launch a modelling career that have problems with it.

 

[Idris2002]

Here's a suggestion for LMHF which may or may not be of any use; maybe her brother could change the locks on his house while his wife is away?

 

[LilMissHissyFit]

Its getting him to do that. Not sure if youve ever been close to a battered person but they are abused to the point where they keep thinking as long as they arent getting thumped at that precise moment that things are ok, they then focus on keeping them that way.
As soon as she leaves he will start thinking of her as wonderful again

 

[Idris2002]

I hear you. . . as I was typing that, it struck me that it was probably a bad idea.

But maybe you should watch out she doesn't change the locks. . .

 

[LilMissHissyFit]

she tried that already and was told by the police she had no right and had to get a court order- This was after his boss and several friends had written to the inspector for the area pointing out how their sexist policing was assisting her in being a nutter.
To be fair they helped all they could after that but unless he makes a complaint they are still taking the attitude that they cant do anything ( and I know thats wrong)
At least it meant that she had a shock when they appeared after a dramatic phone call and said they would take her to a womens refuge or B+B ( which is what they had been doing to him)
After that she stopped the allegations

 

[Idris2002]

bloody hell . . .

Well, good luck (though I know those two words belong in the 'futile gestures' file most of the time.

 

[Louloubelle]

Here's a suggestion for LMHF which may or may not be of any use; maybe her brother could change the locks on his house while his wife is away?

That sounds great
The problem I can forsee is that he might change the locks but then relent once she's back, as is the kind of typical behaviour of battered spouses.
He needs some intensive support to make his own descision IMO
This isn't easy at all though
Whether you call is battered spouse syndrome or stockholm syndrome it's something that's hard for people to break out of

oops edited as the thread had moved on and well, yes what MHF says really

 

[LilMissHissyFit]

I keep my distance becuase shes also threatened my kids.
My husband said we'll make a real effort while shes away to get him up here for a weekend, take him out etc ( we live 50 miles away) witha group of mates( and some single ladies ) and try to show him what hes missing in terms of fun

 

[FridgeMagnet]

I'd suggest that, if the OP has a great desire to do porn, something like SG (even if it's run by someone who's by all accounts a cock) is better than getting involved with "proper" porn. Being in the UK you're not going to get into the whole touring thing, it's just a question of taking clothes off and getting someone to take pictures, and no STDs involved.

LLB, I'd say that getting someone to make promises or start proceedings in a moment of clarity, the sort of thing that they can't back down from, is the only practical course. "Move out now, right this evening" sort of thing. A friend of a friend whom I know, who'd had his girlfriend attack him quite badly, and ignored the "kick her out"/"call the police" messages because she was "under stress", recently got stabbed by her; I'm aware of the sort of behaviour.

 

[Louloubelle]

I keep my distance becuase shes also threatened my kids.
My husband said we'll make a real effort while shes away to get him up here for a weekend, take him out etc ( we live 50 miles away) witha group of mates( and some single ladies ) and try to show him what hes missing in terms of fun

sounds like a great idea
hope it works out

 

[revol68]

precisely - the thing that makes it so "unique" (i.e. "our models are in control of their own images and they interact with all the punters through the site") is mostly down to how much they fuck over their models. And also theymake it out as if it's all run by a woman, which is mostly a lie.

It wasn't just ownership of the photos though - they're suing another softcore site for... using pink!

You know apnea has her own site now, right?

I won't ask if you've cancelled yr SG subscription yet revol

I heard she has her own site but I haven't been able to find it, you don't happen to have the URL lying about under your bed?

And I don't have a suicide girl subscription anymore, I renounced the objectification of women many months ago and my membership is actually being maintained by a lipstick lesbian whom a certain Ed is in love with. I only look at the site cos she forces me to and I think it's the least I can do to repay my genders sins.

 

[paolo]

To be fair they helped all they could after that but unless he makes a complaint they are still taking the attitude that they cant do anything ( and I know thats wrong)

If she's being violent - well the law has changed. Doesn't need the partner to press charges, the police can do it all on their own. The change in law was primarily because of abused women, but applies either way. A violent partner on our estate was taken away by police who - when challenged by him "she's fine - she's not going to make a complaint" - just said "the law's changed." and snapped the cuffs on.

Good luck.

 

[Ruby_Slippers]

I wouldn't if i was you:

not work safe

lol.. that is FUNNY!

 

[LilMissHissyFit]

If she's being violent - well the law has changed. Doesn't need the partner to press charges, the police can do it all on their own. The change in law was primarily because of abused women, but applies either way. A violent partner on our estate was taken away by police who - when challenged by him "she's fine - she's not going to make a complaint" - just said "the law's changed." and snapped the cuffs on.

Good luck.

Like I said, I know thats wrong, I know about the changes in the laws ( and not a moment too soon either).BUT I cant make the police act in a certain way from 50 miles away when hes suffering a violent attack

 

[Mikey77]

If you're into exhibitionism, why not go to a swinger's club - plenty of opportunity to show off and be watched by other people.

I read some terrible reviews about a place called Rio's in Kentish Town. Apparently loads of blokes following women around and playing with themselves even when they're not wanted. I just stay at home and play with myself.

 

[pengaleng]

****SG****

If ANYONE is considering doing sg then I'd advise that you don't I've been doing a SHIT load of research on it and I'm not impressed at all, pm me for a list of links if you want...

I'd advise that nobody on here publicly talks about the site or what they do or what has gone on regarding legal stuff on here as they have a real tendency to get shitty and file law suits.

like I said, pm me for info and about some ideas I have if you are interested. (I am not recruiting honest guvnors!)

 

[blamblam]

And I don't have a suicide girl subscription anymore, I renounced the objectification of women many months ago and my membership is actually being maintained by a lipstick lesbian whom a certain Ed is in love with. I only look at the site cos she forces me to and I think it's the least I can do to repay my genders sins.

You were looking at it in my house last week!

 

[TeeJay]

I heard she has her own site but I haven't been able to find it, you don't happen to have the URL lying about under your bed?

http://www.apneatic.com/

 

[jung offender]

Might sound ridiculous, but i have a very naughty exhibitionist streak and i would love to do a couple of adult films. Does anyone know... is it a difficult field to get into? Im not talking long term career plans .. just a bit of money for doing something ive always fantasised about.

Ha! Well I might be able to put you in touch with some people.

See my thread above

http://www.urban75.net/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=152029

 

[revol68]

You were looking at it in my house last week!

yeah cos it's my account paid for by her and i still have the password.

 

[cathal marcs]

Oh please no don't go for them! Suicide Girls are a pile of utter shite (as a comapny). Yeah, their photos are pretty but they treat their workers (you know, the actual models) like complete shite. Like really, really badly. They fuck them over, pay terribly, expect you to do an incredible amount of unpaid work (all the blog stuff etc. to promote the "ooh look our models are real people" bollocks they try to sell) and their whole "feminist" thing is such crap.

Read this article if you don't believe me...

If yr really into letting strangers wank over you then why not try out an actual independant, woman run pin up site, that isn't syndicated by sodding Playboy, like Nofauxxx.com ?

Cheers for the article I found it very interesting. id never heard of the suicide girls in my life before.

 

[nick1181]

From : http://www.bgafd.co.uk/miscellany/getintoporn-04.php

"Industry video rates are around: £250 girl/girl, £300 Boy/Girl, £350 Boy/Girl + Anal, £400 Double Penetration or more (circa autumn 2004). Plus reasonable travel expenses with lunch provided (usually)."

That is considerably less than I thought it would be.

 

[Thimble Queen]

Oh please no don't go for them! Suicide Girls are a pile of utter shite (as a comapny). Yeah, their photos are pretty but they treat their workers (you know, the actual models) like complete shite. Like really, really badly. They fuck them over, pay terribly, expect you to do an incredible amount of unpaid work (all the blog stuff etc. to promote the "ooh look our models are real people" bollocks they try to sell) and their whole "feminist" thing is such crap.

Read this article if you don't believe me...

Thanx it was more of an off the cuff comment than something I'd actually do.. but that article was really interesting.

 

[warszawa]

From : http://www.bgafd.co.uk/miscellany/getintoporn-04.php

"Industry video rates are around: £250 girl/girl, £300 Boy/Girl, £350 Boy/Girl + Anal, £400 Double Penetration or more (circa autumn 2004). Plus reasonable travel expenses with lunch provided (usually)."

That is considerably less than I thought it would be.

That's not a lot of money really, is it?