Horrific attack on man in Ealing

[Bernie Gunther]

A bouncer of my aquaintance, now deceased, wondered aloud why some people, a family if I recall right, would take axes on a coach trip to Southport.

There just isn't any reason that makes sense, but they did anyway.

Some people just have very small dicks and feel the need to carry weapons.

 

[Orang Utan]

I htink that's a bit of a spiteful thing to say
It just upset me so I posted about it
I'm interested you your idea about prurient thrills though
It definitely came from somewhere inside your mind
I think you should have a think about what that spiteful little coment says about you

Hold your horses - I was just joking!

 

[MysteryGuest]

I htink that's a bit of a spiteful thing to say
It just upset me so I posted about it
I'm interested you your idea about prurient thrills though
It definitely came from somewhere inside your mind
I think you should have a think about what that spiteful little coment says about you

What arrant rubbish.


You're worse than stobart at starting sensationalist news threads about unpleasant incidents - and there's obviously some reason for that on your part. You're into psychology, are you not, yet as is so often the case with people like you, you are completely unable to take any suggestion whatsoever that you should look at your own motives. Really, what a bollocks post that is, complete with snide implication aimed at OU and stupid "" at the end, which only makes YOU look spiteful and petty.

 

[Louloubelle]

What arrant rubbish.


You're worse than stobart at starting sensationalist news threads about unpleasant incidents - and there's obviously some reason for that on your part. You're into psychology, are you not, yet as is so often the case with people like you, you are completely unable to take any suggestion whatsoever that you should look at your own motives. Really, what a bollocks post that is, complete with snide implication aimed at OU and stupid "" at the end, which only makes YOU look spiteful and petty.

Another nasty post, how charming

Yes I'm into psychology

Yes I sometimes post about things that really upset and anger me
I think that's allowed isn't it?

The snide comment (just a joke apparently ) that I got a thrill from posting such things is something I thought about very seriously, but I don't believe it to be true.

I do get sense of relief when I post something about something horrific because I want to reality check with others that they find it horrific too.

I have had seriously traumatising things happen to me in my life and when I hear about certain crimes and horrible things it leaves me reeling with a feeling of horror that resonates with what happened to me. It leaves me feeling very alone and posting about these things helps me to feel less alone.

I know I'm not the only one who has experienced seriously traumatising life events. There are other posters here that I've shared things with in PMs and in real life. Mostly they chose not to read these stories. I can't help but read them and think about them. People deal with things in differnt ways and I think that's OK.

So, basically, fuck off

 

[MysteryGuest]

 

[tendril]

Perhaps a balance would be to post the news link, with some comment on why it occured and what we may do to combat these incidents.

 

[MysteryGuest]

LLB I'm sorry that you have traumatic stuff to deal with, but it doesn't really give you the right to make comments like you made to OU. Can you not see how deeply nasty your insinuation was? Other people have shit to deal with too, and this place is not here solely for your use.

 

[JHE]

You're worse than stobart at starting sensationalist news threads about unpleasant incidents - and there's obviously some reason for that on your part. You're into psychology, are you not, yet as is so often the case with people like you, you are completely unable to take any suggestion whatsoever that you should look at your own motives. Really, what a bollocks post that is, complete with snide implication aimed at OU and stupid "" at the end, which only makes YOU look spiteful and petty.

Why the fuck shouldn't the story be posted?

 

[MysteryGuest]

Why the fuck shouldn't the story be posted?

Where the fuck did I say that?

 

[Louloubelle]

LLB I'm sorry that you have traumatic stuff to deal with, but it doesn't really give you the right to make comments like you made to OU. Can you not see how deeply nasty your insinuation was? Other people have shit to deal with too, and this place is not here solely for your use.

I dissagree

OU said that he felt that I got a 'thrill' from posting up links to horrible news stories.

I gave a great deal of thought to his post and I ended up feeling very angry because while I recognise that I do post up links to horrible news stories when I'm feeling down (Easter is a very bad time for me anniversary wise) I don't so it because I get a thrill.

You seem to be suggesting that it's not nasty for him to insinuate that I get a thrill from posting about such news stories but that I am nasty if I invite him to consider what belongs to him in his post.

Can you see how illogical this is?

 

[Orang Utan]

The next time I think about saying what I think, I'll shut up shall I?

 

[Louloubelle]

The next time I think about saying what I think, I'll shut up shall I?

I think it depends on how hurtful or spiteful your thoughts could be felt to be if you post them TBH.

Also if it's a 'feeling' that you have about someone else's motivations for something it's up to you but if someone disagrees with you then they will post a response and if the're angry then it might not be a very nice response.

 

[Orang Utan]

None of what I said was spiteful or hurtful - I only make spiteful posts towards the like of racist trolls.
I obviously touched on a nerve, so you must understand why I thought that consistently posting horrible news of violent attacks can look a bit odd. Some people do seem to get a thrill out of constantly painting the world as a bad and dangerous place. Not you though obviously.

 

[Louloubelle]

None of what I said was spiteful or hurtful - I only make spiteful posts towards the like of racist trolls.
I obviously touched on a nerve, so you must understand why I thought what I did.

Dur, of course it's spiteful to suggest that someone posts about news stories because they get a 'thrill' out of it.

You don't have a clue about why I might post a link to a certain news story. You can have a fantasy about it but ultimately that will say more about you than about me.

 

[Louloubelle]

I admit you did touch on a nerve (interesting use of words)

5 years ago at easter my dentist sexually assaulted me when I was under the influence of nitrous oxide as he was drilling into my tooth to do some root canal work

He also told me that I was enjoying when he was telling me and doing to me (that I was gettting a thrill out of it)

Well I wasn't

sorry if some of my anger got transfered onto you

it is a raw nerve

 

[Orang Utan]

Twas a flippant comment, I certainly didn't intend to hurt anyone, so sorry if I did.

 

[Louloubelle]

Twas a flippant comment, I certainly didn't intend to hurt anyone, so sorry if I did.

it's OK

I'm just feeling very vulnerable at the moment
This time last year I had to stop seeing my analyst as he was dying of MS and I miss him terribly.
Six years ago at easter I was mugged and almost killed outside my home
There's a whole lot of other stuff too that I don't want go into

I'm sorry too



I've got some work to do so I'm outa here

 

[han]

I like to think no-one is truely evil.

I like to think that too

I guess we are all products of our surroundings....babies aren't evil are they! (Unless you're an evangelical christian in which case you think they are!)

 

[Mrs Magpie]

OK, there's been arrest, move along now, there's nothing to see....

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/london/4933362.stm

 

[MysteryGuest]

I don't really want to bump this thread, but on reflection I suppose I have to point out here, albeit somewhat reluctantly, that I am going through a LOT in my personal life too right now. I have three EXTREMELY difficult anniversaries to deal with in the period between end of March and beginning of May each year. I don't want to get drawn into some kind of game of personal tragedy poker, but this is a hugely stressful time for me too. It's as serious as stuff gets.

The possibility doesn't seem to have occurred to the OP that there may be other people here going through a massively difficult time at the moment.


*puts LLB on ignore*

 

[scruff]

This story has some what disturbed me. I only hope the police have arrested the right person, and will find the other cunt.

I'm sorry but the kind of person(s) who pays this much disrepect to another persons life needs to wiped out, snubbed out. Too many innocent people suffering under the hands of thousands of dodgy fuckers that walk our streets.

What is it that PK used to say... Surplus.

Get rid.

 

[Louloubelle]

I don't really want to bump this thread, but on reflection I suppose I have to point out here, albeit somewhat reluctantly, that I am going through a LOT in my personal life too right now. I have three EXTREMELY difficult anniversaries to deal with in the period between end of March and beginning of May each year. I don't want to get drawn into some kind of game of personal tragedy poker, but this is a hugely stressful time for me too. It's as serious as stuff gets.

The possibility doesn't seem to have occurred to the OP that there may be other people here going through a massively difficult time at the moment.


*puts LLB on ignore*

I really don't understand what you're on about

Fisrtly you wade into a thing between me and OU and start getting into something that's not your business.

He's a big boy and can sort out his own disputes. Now we've sorted it out and (AFAIK) there's no hard feelings but you still want to complain about something but what exactly it is you're complaining about I have no idea.

Just because I have distressing anniversaries and choose to share some information about some of them it doesn't mean that you're not allowed to talk about yours too if you want to.

There's lots of space for people to talk as much as they want, I don't have a monopoly on it, as you'll see if you check out the 'rape and provocative clothing' thread, which I've just stayed away from because I have some limits about what I want to discuss about myself and my experiences. If I did post on there it wouldn't stop anyone else posting or sharing would it?

If you don't want to post about your experiences and anniversaries then don't, but I'm not stopping you either way.

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I don't know what else to say because I have no idea what it is you're angry about.

edited to say that the personal information that ed edited out is nothing that MG hasn't posted himself numerous times on here. I posted it so that he knew that I had read and taken in his various posts on the subject and didn't think it would be a problem to refer to it.

 

[Derian]

Back away from the keyboards.

 

[Louloubelle]

Well I'm going to bed but before I do I just want to say to mystery_guest that whatever your problems and troubles are, I hope they get better.

 

[scruff]

Great, can we get back on topic now?

 

[JHE]

More fuckin' horror on the streets of London: Two men killed in street attack

 

[likesfish]

grim took a meat cleaver off a resident of a hostel I worked at bloke said he kept it for sentimental reasons
after he got kicked out demaneded it back threatened to sue the hostel if it was'nt handed. back pointed out to management handing a meat clever to a short violent scottish heroin addict (he'd been kicked out for attacking another client) did'nt actually go with the mission statement of respecting the local community