What's the relationship between a homosexual person and homosexual acts?
One of identification or attribution. The person is identified, or attributed, or associated, with the acts. This is a common way of thinking in hierarchical societies that value specialisation. A singer is one who sings or has sung. Correspondingly, a woofter is one who woofts or has woofted.
All associations between people and actions have a value, individually and collectively ascribed by those who associate. Generally, this particular association is negative, which makes it very pervasive. Performing one single homosexual act strongly identifies you as "a homosexual". However, performing one single heterosexual act (a positive and commonplace activity) in the middle of a lifetime torrent of man-on-man frottage does not have such highly penetrating value in the collective web of associations and therefore does not automatically stain with you with heterosexuality right down to the chromosomes. Heterosexuality always drips onto wipe-free rubber sheets. But homosexuality is a like a skidmark on silk sheets: long after it's been washed out, you still worry you can smell it. We can thank two distinct groups of people for this: pixie-bothering interference-monkeys, and stupid robotic geniuses in white coats wielding scalpels. Poofs have long been spitroasted by the twinned raping cocks of vicars and doctors.
nosos said:
Can a person be a homosexual and not perform homosexual acts?
Depends, but the pat answer is yes. You can identify or associate yourself, or be identified or associated by other people, with those acts, or the desire to perform those acts, or even the innate, astrological tendency towards those acts, without actually having done them, quite possibly due to lack of effort. Just
wanting to do them, or
looking like you might do them given the opportunity, qualifies you.
You can't be a fireman unless you actually put out fires. Idly speculating that you might rescue a cat from a tree one day doesn't quite cut it for me, although historically one takes what one can get.
nosos said:
Can a person perform homosexual acts and yet not be a homosexual?
If a poof fucks in the woods, does he listen to Kylie?