Yes, it has been quite a revelation.
I have been a Gypsy Teacher (I travel, work in a country for a year or so, and then move on to the next country) for most of the last 18 years, so I have seen a bit of the world. When we decided to come to China in 2005 it was merely for the sake of the experience, and it was supposed to be a one or maaaybe two year stint. It took us six months to decide that this will be the last place on our trek. This is the place where we wanna stay and build our family.
This decision was made simply because of what we experience(d) here. These are:
1. On a personal level, an acceptance and open-mindedness we as a gay couple have not experienced anywhere else.
2. A deeply inherent, almost naturally soft and gentle people.
3. A social liberalism that goes beyond rhetoric, slogans, Politically Correctness or a "because my dad told me ..." mentality.
4. A modern society like you will find anywhere in Europe or the 7 main English speaking countries with a rural community that is obviously less "modern", but who has a social value system of thousands of years from which to draw for guidance and principles.
5. A principle of "If you agree with a law, abide by it. If you don't, ignore it".
6. A genuine believe in compromise, one of the central teachings of Confucius.
Regarding the media. I grew up with the BBC and the old VoA glued to my ear. Wherever I went in the world, I had my little short wave radio with me as I had to have my daily doses of BBC News. Not until I came to live here did I start questioning the objectivity and even honesty of the BBC. Now I do. I still listen to it daily (in fact, I am listening to it now) but the sad part is that now I listen to it more critically. I no longer accept what they say at face value.
A very interesting report on BBC was one broadcast in December 2006. Their correspondent in China (and I can not remember his name now) left China to go back to Britain after a number of years living in China. They had an interview with him picking his brains on his years in this country. The most revealing statement he made on this programme was that, in all his years in China, he filed ONE positive report. One. He lived here for years, and he could find ONE positive thing to report on about this vast country? One has to question that.
Below is a link to another "alternative" look at China I found last night. Have a look if you have the time.
http://viproxy.net/index.php?hl=f5&q=uggc://gurpuvanqrfx.oybtfcbg.pbz/2006_09_01_nepuvir.ugzy
This is a reply that could go on for pages, but let's just say that I am more than willing to answer questions about what I experience here, should you or anyone else have questions. What I am not willing to do is to get into a slinging match with someone on here.
Have a good day.
I have been a Gypsy Teacher (I travel, work in a country for a year or so, and then move on to the next country) for most of the last 18 years, so I have seen a bit of the world. When we decided to come to China in 2005 it was merely for the sake of the experience, and it was supposed to be a one or maaaybe two year stint. It took us six months to decide that this will be the last place on our trek. This is the place where we wanna stay and build our family.
This decision was made simply because of what we experience(d) here. These are:
1. On a personal level, an acceptance and open-mindedness we as a gay couple have not experienced anywhere else.
2. A deeply inherent, almost naturally soft and gentle people.
3. A social liberalism that goes beyond rhetoric, slogans, Politically Correctness or a "because my dad told me ..." mentality.
4. A modern society like you will find anywhere in Europe or the 7 main English speaking countries with a rural community that is obviously less "modern", but who has a social value system of thousands of years from which to draw for guidance and principles.
5. A principle of "If you agree with a law, abide by it. If you don't, ignore it".
6. A genuine believe in compromise, one of the central teachings of Confucius.
Regarding the media. I grew up with the BBC and the old VoA glued to my ear. Wherever I went in the world, I had my little short wave radio with me as I had to have my daily doses of BBC News. Not until I came to live here did I start questioning the objectivity and even honesty of the BBC. Now I do. I still listen to it daily (in fact, I am listening to it now) but the sad part is that now I listen to it more critically. I no longer accept what they say at face value.
A very interesting report on BBC was one broadcast in December 2006. Their correspondent in China (and I can not remember his name now) left China to go back to Britain after a number of years living in China. They had an interview with him picking his brains on his years in this country. The most revealing statement he made on this programme was that, in all his years in China, he filed ONE positive report. One. He lived here for years, and he could find ONE positive thing to report on about this vast country? One has to question that.
Below is a link to another "alternative" look at China I found last night. Have a look if you have the time.
http://viproxy.net/index.php?hl=f5&q=uggc://gurpuvanqrfx.oybtfcbg.pbz/2006_09_01_nepuvir.ugzy
This is a reply that could go on for pages, but let's just say that I am more than willing to answer questions about what I experience here, should you or anyone else have questions. What I am not willing to do is to get into a slinging match with someone on here.
Have a good day.