Hey FFan
Thanks for this thread. I enjoyed both this and the links to jessiedogs thread posted above. And as I do have hours to kill ... I read his whole thread as well before posting this.
How right you are, even if you do live in Thailand. Kudos to you for sticking it out. Someone should have come to your aid long ago.
You have an open mind, indeed.
We have been living in China since 2005, and as such, think we might have something to add. As first volley in your defence I will simply copy paste an email I sent to my family / friends earlier tonight here below in response to this thread.
QUOTE EMAIL ( proper names replaced with initials in this Quote)
If you want to understand a little more about this country, and look beyond what the media in our democratic West have to say, have a look at these forums. Read what other Westerners living in this country have to say. Also PLEASE note how those thinking like us are being belittled and shot down by people from the West.
Obviously a lot of negative stuff is being chucked around on this forum linked below by people who have never been to this country, people like the majority of "us" out there who do not and can not accept the facts as put out by people like me.... as they are too indoctrinated by what the "free western press" tells them to belive. However, I do believe that, after having read these, you will see that M, I and our thinking, objective colleagues out here are not the only ones believing what we have come to believe: that WE in the West are the ones being lied, lied, lied to at the moment. For a variety of political and economic reasons.
Please note, I say "at the moment". Nobody can deny the bad stuff of the past, nor are any local people nor officials denying them or lying to us or indoctrinating us. For goodness, we teach them (both ordinary people and the "evil" officials), they talk OPENLY about the atrocities of the past in our classes, about the Cultural rev, about Mao ... and they condemn it, openly and kindly as only a Chinese person can do .... a woman even cried about it in my class the other day (and she is a Deputy Mayor of Sxx) ..... they are our friends and we visit their homes and their families ....surely we'd be able to pick up if there was this major, national conspiracy to mislead all foreigners.
We do not see this.
We see only true, unmasked, naively innocent kindness and welcoming. A people who are truly warm and kind. People who want to be friends with you - without ulterior motives. Ulterior motives besides making money, that is .. LOL.
END OF QUOTED EMAIL
Yes, and I know not naming the city she is Deputy Mayor of is an indictment ... but I still suffer a little from a life-long indoctrination ... even though I have not experienced it in 2 years on ground level ....