AnnO'Neemus
Is so vanilla
I have two spare rooms. Aside from the fact that a roof leak caused structural damage and I'm having to sue my landlord to force them to carry out the repairs so they're currently uninhabitable, I now have a policy, after some bad experiences, of not inviting people to stay in my flat who have been referred to me with a sob story by a neighbour.Hollis said:Nah! The morally repugnant people are the ones with spare rooms who don't rent 'em out.. while asylum seekers live in hotels..![]()
Horror story #1 A vague aquaintance, has nowhere, let her stay in my flat. I don't smoke, tell her smoking only on the balcony please. She smokes dope in bed, burns my sheets. When I confront her, she's like: what's your problem? I'll buy you some new sheets! (load of bollocks, she didn't) My problem was that she was damned lucky not to have burned my flat down.
Horror story #2 Friends of a friend of a friend... they're having to leave the shared house they're in, I'm told they need somewhere for a couple of weeks while they find somewhere else. They move in and tell me their name is on the council housing list and they've been told they'll probably get a flat in about five months!
They leave a packet of dope on the fire. I ask them not to, because the police might visit to follow up a breaking and entering and I don't want them to see stuff like that if they turn up. This couple also start having 'domestics' arguing and being frosty with one another. It turns out she's pregnant and having to have an abortion and that's why she's stomping about my flat and slamming doors. I don't even know this couple, they're not even my friends, I just took pity on them being homeless and they've been a nightmare. I ask them to leave. The chap threatens me, tells me: You don't know what f***ing Paki you're messing with, it won't be me, but watch yourself, because someone's going to get you. (NB: He referred to himself as "paki") Btw, they were staying in my flat as 'guests', rent free, because I was on an introductory tenancy at the time and didn't want to jeopardise it by having lodgers, which wasn't allowed, and that's the thanks I got.Horror story #3 Poor international student on a scholarship from South Africa (value of rand v. sterling is pants). He's a friend of a neighbour who knows I have a couple of spare bedrooms. I take pity on him and tell him he can stay rent free (bearing in mind his impoverished state), in return for helping me to paint the spare room. Before he can get round to doing this, I'm away in London and I get a call saying my neighbour below is going to break into my flat because there's a leak coming from my flat flooding his kitchen. I phone the student chap to ask what's going on, it turns out he'd turned on the washer without putting the drain pipe over the sink. He's also gone away. His attitude? I'm not there, what do you expect me to do about it? I have to pay for a train from London, go home, sort it out, pay compensation to the neighbour with the flooded kitchen, pay for a night in an hotel (because there's no spare room). Altogether, this chap who was staying rent free in my flat cost me £200. And he was apparently 'unhappy' that I asked him to leave.
Horror story # 4. Again, friend of a neighbour who knows I have spare rooms. This guy takes the p!ss, doesn't wash his pots. I'm away studying and come back about once a fortnight, ringing him in advance to let him know I'm coming home. Does he tidy up? No. I'm sure he things I was telling him I was coming home so he'd know to leave things a mess for me to clean up after him. In the end, I had to tell him, I'm not your mother, I'm not your wife, and I'm certainly not your maid. Did it make any difference? No. His girlfriend came to stay the weekend, he created twice as many dirty pots and left them. I really drew the line at cleaning up after someone who didn't even live in my flat. On top of which, he f***ed around with the radiator valves in my flat, breaking them, causing the radiators to leak and causing about £300 worth of damage to carpets.
Following those experiences of disrespect and damage to me and my home, I couldn't give a toss if a homeless person/asylum seeker was sleeping in the gutter outside my front door, I wouldn't take them in.
