Fat Beauty Contest Now

[Sweaty Betty]

I think you are just picking holes now !!!!

Spangles had it put best imo........

He is far too engaging and actually listens to others viewpoints which most trolls arent capable of.............I have enjoyed his input...

 

[trashpony]

I think you are just picking holes now !!!!

Spangles had it put best imo........

He is far too engaging and actually listens to others viewpoints which most trolls arent capable of.............I have enjoyed his input...

You're probably right but it just seemed a bit inconsistent. And combined with the spoons thread ...

 

[wishface]

But they are attractive, facially. They just prefer not to be thin.

That last part, I totally doubt.

No one prefers to be fat or chooses to be overweight. That's just not true. Sorry.

 

[wishface]

Well to turn your question around... why should women (or men) lose weight in order to be approved of?

You've answered your own question!

 

[spanglechick]

That last part, I totally doubt.

No one prefers to be fat or chooses to be overweight. That's just not true. Sorry.

have you read the rest of the thread? i don't think you can be so black and white there,

 

[lyra_k]

As I've gotten older I've realised that almost everyone has "something"... some foible or addiction of some sort to varying degrees of destructiveness. The trouble with "this" particular addiction is that everyone can see it - alcoholism and drug/other addictions can (to a certain extent) be hidden. That gorgeous girl with the flat stomach that you might admire may well be slowly killing herself some other way - until you get to know her you won't know.

This is so so so true. I've been guilty, certainly, of having impatient or dismissive thoughts about obesity.....until I look at myself and realise that it's pure luck that I had (not so much any more) a fast metabolism and different (but equally self-destructive) ways of coping with STUFF than overeating that just happened to be less visible to complete strangers.

 

[Sweaty Betty]

You're probably right but it just seemed a bit inconsistent. And combined with the spoons thread ...

yeah i see what you mean mate