My point was that it's not a redistribution issue, it's a demographic one which has been exacerbated by social changes to the traditional structure of the extended family (somethign that capitalists and socialists can take equal pride in having dismantled - caps for increasing alienation, socialists for saying that the extended family is a barrier to class consciousness as it prevents people from thinking as a class entity). Family elders would be supported by their kids, and in return were able to offer emotional, practical (babysitting and education) and sometimes financial help to their families.
By atomising the family unit, and thus alienating parents from children and vice versa, old people are now forced to look after themselves and look to the state, not their own families, for suport, and the converse applies - if you've got easy access to babysitting services, the whole noise made about state nurseries, company creches, having to take time out of work because kids are ill etc wouldn't happen.
This is not to say that the extended family was a perfect social institution - (for example I suspect that the 'rise' in things like sex abuse are nothing of the sort, only that the atomisation has removed internal pressures from extended family units to not say anything) but it did provide a massive array of social support services that are now abrogated to the state.