Fair point. I re-read your post and realised I'd missed your premise.
Actually, I probably missed it because I think the idea of a separatist Wales, NI, Scotland is a bit of a dumb one, and I fell into my prejudicial "aww, look at pwoar England, wowwying about being left out, pwoar ickwle lion" attitude when I think I see people griping about it (which I'll accept you probably weren't).
I think the kind of independence the provinces mostly have is a great one, but I really do believe that our heritages are so intertwined that separatism isn't the way to go: the way to go is for England (in particular) to start recognising the debt and the honour it shares to be partnered with the countries it is. I'd add the RoI to that, too - these are all peoples who, despite our differences, have fought for, with, (ok, and occasionally against) us, share so many of our ideals (and brewing techniques), and whom we have both supplied and been supplied by with all the essentials of existence. They have taught our children, as we have trained their adults. They have written our songs, as we have sung theirs. We're siblings, really, and all it takes, I think, is for the English (in particular) to stop seeing our countries as some outfit that deserves all kinds of things, and accept their existence in conjunction with the provinces, as equals on all kinds of bases.
And let's leave the petty-minded nationalists and those who MUST see difference everywhere they look to their tawdry agendas and centuries-old slights. We don't need that crap any more...