Creepy man at job interview

[SubZeroCat]

I was ten years younger, and found that if I tried hard with both hands, I could with time learn not to stare. I think many men are programmed to stare at tits though, in the same way that women always seem to stare at babies.

Yes. And girls wear pink and boys wear bluuuuue!



Actually, I sometimes look at women's bodies (I'm pretty much straight btw) and I sometimes look at babies when I'm out - what does that make me?

I know that it's hard not too look if there's a plunging cleavage cos it's so there but ffs it's easily doable, there's a person attached to that cleavage and I know how horrible it is when people stare at your chest like you're not even there....

 

[TopCat]

I know how horrible it is when people stare at your chest like you're not even there....

But your head is not you exclusively is it? Or your eyes or any other part of you?

Anyway, as I said I have learned only to grab a glance when no one is looking.

 

[Onket]

I don't like the personal questions about being single or not though, and the killer is getting in your personal space. Go with your instincts and look somewhere else for work.

I agree that the fella might be a bit dodge, but calling him a killer is a bit harsh!

 

[EastEnder]

I know that it's hard not too look if there's a plunging cleavage cos it's so there but ffs it's easily doable, there's a person attached to that cleavage and I know how horrible it is when people stare at your chest like you're not even there....

The trick is to always look a woman directly in the eyes.

That way you can see when she's looking the other way and catch a crafty glimpse of the goods.



E2A: TopCat knows the score.

 

[beeboo]

I can honestly say I don't think I've ever noticed anyone checking out my tits ever.

And back on topic...if you get offered the job, I would ask to go in again before you accept/decline, to check out the working envrioment and other people? If you still feel uncomfortable then don't take it.

 

[EastEnder]

I can honestly say I don't think I've ever noticed anyone checking out my tits ever.

(((((beeboo)))))

 

[boohoo]

welll.... I have a trial day in this job on Monday - so will see what happens....cos realistically after looking since August for work I can't really turn down the kind of job I would really like...

And I have hung around quite alot of letchy guys ( and that's not even counting urban menfolk *points finger* )...

 

[Firky]

What do you do? Take the job and wear revealing tops - you'll get a pay rise

Was it the kind of staring at your tits with out blinking, or was it more sort of a furrowed brow and hand on chin staring? If it was the latter you probably had gravy on your top

 

[EastEnder]

And I have hung around quite alot of letchy guys ( and that's not even counting urban menfolk *points finger* )...

I wouldn't point your finger at urban menfolk, they'll only stick it somewhere thoroughly unsavoury......

 

[boohoo]

I wouldn't point your finger at urban menfolk, they'll only stick it somewhere thoroughly unsavoury......

 

[boohoo]

What do you do? Take the job and wear revealing tops - you'll get a pay rise

Was it the kind of staring at your tits with out blinking, or was it more sort of a furrowed brow and hand on chin staring? If it was the latter you probably had gravy on your top

Well, if he continues to look at my boobs or get in my personal space, I shall just pretend I am God squad. A happy announcement that me and my brother and sisters in the lord were praying for the business at bible study and feel the Jesus has his hand over the future workings of the company should certainly make him keep his distance...

 

[Thora]

Well, if he continues to look at my boobs or get in my personal space, I shall just pretend I am God squad. A happy announcement that me and my brother and sisters in the lord were praying for the business at bible study and feel the Jesus has his hand over the future workings of the company should certainly make him keep his distance...

Unless he sees you as more of a 'challenge'

 

[Thora]

You may think that but as a woman I don't trust men who can't control themselves - I'm not implying anything about you, just pointing out how my/some women's logic works sometimes....

Exactly how I feel too SZC.

 

[weltweit]

In the first office job I had there was a bubbly lady who was PA to a senior manager who was always coming on to her, she just used to bat him away like a bothersome fly - and continue on her day - seeming unaffected.

 

[SubZeroCat]

Exactly how I feel too SZC.

Like men who repeatedly ask you to dance or whatever even though you keep saying no - dangerous.

 

[boohoo]

Unless he sees you as more of a 'challenge'

If he did that I would raise the God squad stakes.... tapes of Christian soft rock and persistent quoting of the bible, invites to church and a jesus sticker in the shop window...

 

[Firky]

 

[Termite Man]

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