Breaking Up With Someone Financially Dependent On You

[spacemonkey]

Has she got any of the 10k left?

 

[liquidlunch]

our lives are pretty similar Yelkcub,my ex is like a boomerang and she always used to get back in.It will do your head in every time and i can tell you from the bottom of my heart,it dont get any better.Pull the plug,no one needs that shit

 

[fogbat]

Has she got any of the 10k left?

I'd say that's a pretty good question.

The answer to it is worth thinking about, Yelkcub.


Wishing you the best of luck, fella. You've already done far, far more than should be expected of you. If you possibly, possibly can, take the chance to walk away, knowing you've been the bigger person.

 

[Cheesypoof]

Trouble is mate - she's milking you of all the energy and self respect that makes you attractive to other women, because she wants you all to herself even if she doesn't love you.

If you turfed her out and went away for a bit to clear your head, you'd have more of your own presence of mind to be able to handle the tantrums and mood swings.

I have a friend in what appears to be precisely the same situation, he loves her, he knows she's leeching everything from him, he knows they will never last in the long run.

But he can't help himself because it seems easier to put up with a miserable relationship, rather than to make the break and rediscover the person you were before you had to suffer all this mess.

I think you need to believe in yourself rather than to continue deluding yourself.

You could be so, so much happier six months from now.

agree 100% with all that.