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i like ya loads cesare, i have to go to bed now, i like JC2 as well. I hope the hoopla was nothing serious.

god bless to my blessed urbans

my prayers and kisses shall on behalf of you all shall be going out to Lester Bangs, Johnny Cash and the great red dawn of the north.

Xxx, M

If ever some bloke somewhere encourages 10 men to hold you down and fuck you - I'll be sure to remind you how moral and upstanding they are, twas all a hoopla.

Don't mention it. Don't make a fuss.

Sleep well. I hope no-one's invading your dreams with 10 man rape.
 
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Yeah I think he fucking would.

me too...

and maybe even give you the 1 finger salute (not you cesare of course x... but miss perfick...)

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D'ya know what. Johnny Canuck thinks it's great to encourage 10 U75 posters to gang rape me. That's what he said earlier on. He even specified 10. I love the way the thread was fucking closed just after.

You made light of the fact that a group of posters were discussing lynching me. It seemed immaterial to you, that I didn't like it.

I made the analogy I did, to impart to you, that joking about lynching to a black man, is like joking about rape to a woman. You didn't seem to get the point.

The thread is locked, but still in existence. Anyone can go look at the last few pages.

The concept of being confined and subjected to forcible sex, is loathsome. So is being confined, then taken to a tree, and having a noose put around your neck, and being lifted off the ground.
 
Never rely on legal action for a pay out!!!!

Should be only thought of a bonus

HGaving said that, if a small degree of financial input saves a property being repossesed (sp) it might be worth some sort of agreement

However if anything you donate is gonna be spunked up the wall, forget it
 
You made light of the fact that a group of posters were discussing lynching me. It seemed immaterial to you, that I didn't like it.

I made the analogy I did, to impart to you, that joking about lynching to a black man, is like joking about rape to a woman. You didn't seem to get the point.

The thread is locked, but still in existence. Anyone can go look at the last few pages.

The concept of being confined and subjected to forcible sex, is loathsome. So is being confined, then taken to a tree, and having a noose put around your neck, and being lifted off the ground.

I did not make light of it. What I did (amongst several others) was to challenge you turning it into a race issue.

Out of those challenges re you turning it into a race issue, you decided to take mine and make one general comment about multiple rape to a woman followed by two specific suggestions about multiple rape to me personally.

It's here: http://www.urban75.net/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=262303

And as for your suggestion of reporting your comments to a mod - it's clear from the thread that a mod is already aware. It was a mod who locked the thread.
 
this woman is playing you like a fiddle. you need to cut her out of your life completely once and for all. either you leave or tell her to leave and don't pay any more of her bills. she sounds like a wacko nut job to me.

no one should have to take this crap. i would have dumped her sorry ass a long ago.

Wow, not only a Judaeophobe, but an unreconstructed chauvinist and sexist too.
 
D'ya know what. Johnny Canuck thinks it's great to encourage 10 U75 posters to gang rape me. That's what he said earlier on. He even specified 10. I love the way the thread was fucking closed just after.
In which case he's even more of a vile idiot than he's proved himself to be previously. :mad:
I'm guessing that, as usual, his transgression has been "overlooked"? :rolleyes:
 
Dare I suggest to Cesare and JC2 that this is another tangiental row on Urban that has gone way beyond the remit!?

You are both good people and this is all a bit silly.
 
i am sure he didnt mean it and got the total wrong end of the stick and was saying whatever he wanted to say in a totally stupid way ms cesare.

You are a top person and no one here wishes you anything other but love and happiness, Johnny Cannuck is a respectful guy and he would have gotten it wrong and definitely *not* meant it that way, i am really positive of that ms.

Johnny Canuck is a smarmy, insidiously disrespectful person who's often been guilty of spouting vile shit.

Just because he occasionally deigns to kiss your arse when others are righteously kicking it doesn't make him a good bloke, Cheesy.
 
Let's not get carried away now...

Now, now, you appear to be disputing that Cheesy is a journalist, pk.

That's a truly cadish thing to do. She's got a folder full of clippings with her by-line on them, you know! She printed them on her own John Bull printing kit! :p
 
People have mentioned that she may be suffering from depression as well as stress.

Exactly- so maybe trying to get her the help while they have a trial separation may be the answer rather than an out an out split- BUT the OP knows far more about the situation than i could ever comment on, sometimes its just the end.....
 
I did not make light of it. What I did (amongst several others) was to challenge you turning it into a race issue.

Out of those challenges re you turning it into a race issue, you decided to take mine and make one general comment about multiple rape to a woman followed by two specific suggestions about multiple rape to me personally.

It's here: http://www.urban75.net/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=262303

And as for your suggestion of reporting your comments to a mod - it's clear from the thread that a mod is already aware. It was a mod who locked the thread.
Some seriously tangled wires here, I think. Your posts do read as though you thought Johnny was responsible for bringing race into it and I suppose you're right in that the person who made the rather weird joke about lynching may not have had Johnny's race in mind at all, however I do think it it perfectly understandable why Johnny should have reacted to it. Given that, you did seem to dismiss it. Johnny's response to you then demonstrated rather well that offensive joke is offensive in the context.

(The fact that Johnny was entirely and completely, most spectacularly wrong about just about everything else on that thread is irrelevant to this post.)

Sorry OP - my advice to you would be to end it now, pay her rent for as long as you want to/can reasonably afford to, tell her when you will be stopping and stick to it, offer support to her for her case (i.e. to lend an ear if you're the only person who has been following what has happened, as it happened) if you can manage it and not if you can't without getting drawn in to a 'romantic' relationship again, and give yourself time to stop feeling you have to carry her. Then see where you both are. Simple! :hmm::)
 
Some seriously tangled wires here, I think. Your posts do read as though you thought Johnny was responsible for bringing race into it and I suppose you're right in that the person who made the rather weird joke about lynching may not have had Johnny's race in mind at all, however I do think it it perfectly understandable why Johnny should have reacted to it. Given that, you did seem to dismiss it. Johnny's response to you then demonstrated rather well that offensive joke is offensive in the context.

(The fact that Johnny was entirely and completely, most spectacularly wrong about just about everything else on that thread is irrelevant to this post.)
Not to derail this thread further (but I will) ... 4thwrite was being critical of the "lynch mob", DotC responded with faux sincerity and a reference to tar and feathers, and then JC2 went overboard. Yes, it would be an offensive reference had it been made in an offensive context - but it wasn't. It was a criticism of the way people were ganging up on JC2, ffs!
 
Not to derail this thread further (but I will) ... 4thwrite was being critical of the "lynch mob", DotC responded with faux sincerity and a reference to tar and feathers, and then JC2 went overboard. Yes, it would be an offensive reference had it been made in an offensive context - but it wasn't. It was a criticism of the way people were ganging up on JC2, ffs!
Re-read.

You're right :o

Apologies, cesare.
 
Now, now, you appear to be disputing that Cheesy is a journalist, pk.

That's a truly cadish thing to do. She's got a folder full of clippings with her by-line on them, you know! She printed them on her own John Bull printing kit! :p

I think the term journalist has very loose definition, is all.
When I think of a journalist I think of people who spent months away from home risking their lives to tell important stories, not corporate 9-5ers doing easy prewritten stories to hype share prices... Not that I would be accusing Cheesy of doing that...
 
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