wow thanks everyone - that's a lot of stuff - all which is useful - although my brain is now exploding & i'm also worried about trying to remember everything at once!
um my case is constructive dismissal but there are also elements of discrimination (basically they did not deal with things which made it impossible for me to carry on there) it's SO complicated
i've been really careful not to embellish ANYTHING (although obviously that is one of their lines of attack) & it all happened over 2 years ago (god the lawyers have REALLY dragged this one out!) so my memories of some things are a little sketchy, but i have decided that if I can't remember something exactly i will say so. everything in my statement i can though.. their statements are full of lies & they have cast doubt on me & my integrity already & said that i am a compulsive liar & my old boss said that she wondered how so many bad things could happen to one person (during my time their my family had an article written about them in a tabloid newspaper (which the pcc ruled was wrong & they had to print a retraction but in the mean time my families home was attacked & my old boss said how did that happen - they didn't even have their home address published - but that is irrelevent) i also had a fight with a dodgy minicab driver that left me very stressed & they have said that that was not true (even though the cops have a record of it) & that I have a history of making allegations due to this (again, bollocks). they sent a copy of the person that was the main reason i left's letter that he got when he finally got fired for the same kind of behaviour that they are denying - and they had crossed out all of the stuff that was irrelevant, but they hadn't crossed it out enough & i managed to read it & they have basically crossed everything that WAS relevant to me but I don't know if that is admissible if they have crossed it out?).
yikes - sorry just realised i'm rambling.. can't sleep properly or eat properly now so obviously it's making me a bit stressy !
have managed to find friends to come to all the days except tuesday now & my solicitor told me we will only have four days now (tue - fri) now so i do feel better
all the advice on here really is invaluable, it's funny how you sweat the little things sometimes!