I think this is a really interesting point actually and something that deserves serious attention. It occured to me last night, that given the amount of people behind the goal, there really wasn't a lot of noise coming from behind the goal.
I agree with Joe and Editor: the pockets of random day-trippers doesn't help, but equally the football is so uninspiring, you don't really feel particularly motivated to swing on tyres and vehemently beat your chest for the cause. I stopped going behind the goal last season when we persisted with playing without a bloody striker, because frankly the events on the pitch made singing feel both pointless and hopeless. I've had trouble getting friends back after their 2nd or 3rd games, just because they aren't impressed with the football.
But I think there's something else at work and I've been sitting on this since early last season: there's little to no rapport between players and fans. I can't get excited about singing about Carew, Clunis or any of the others, because they dont seem to give a shit. I thought it was particularly noticable when Waldren came over to celebrate behind the goal when he scored v Burgess Hill. The last time a player did that when I was there was when Vidal scored v Tonbridge and before that when Hamici scored in the last minute v Margate. Anyone who was there I'm sure will testify that when Hamici jumped into the crowd the atmosphere was at feverpitch. That was a year ago. In contrast, when Staines scored against us the other week, their players bounded over to the collection of fans behind the goal. I just think the players can come across as quite aloof at times, bordering on disregard. They say the singing helps, but we never see any real evidence of that. Half-arsed claps at the end of the game don't really inspire you to come back with a rousing chorus of 'Loi, loi, loi' next Saturday. When I think back to when I was a kid, Craig Edwards used to make the players shake the fans hands at the end of every away game. That's a very extreme example and I don't expect that now, but I remember it had a real effect on me. No matter how badly we played, I felt part of it and I felt appreciated and I'd turn up with the same gusto wherever we went. Perhaps I'm being overly-sensitive, but I think the lack of relationship between players and fans, makes a difference. It certainly does for me. And it's a problem that can be so easily fixed.