i am struggling with finding ideas for what to buy my kids great gran for christmas ( my ex's gran) . her birthday was last week for which i bought her a litre of whiskey and some trousers that she wanted, so i just need to get something token for christmas ( budget around 20) . I am not hugely close to her iyswim, but she has helped me and the kids financially and the kids emotionally over the past few years, and unlike my ex parents in law, has bent over backwards to make sure my kids still have a relatively amicable family, and who has offered to watch the kids for the off hour here and there when i have struggled to find childcare so basically, she is a star and i want to get her something good but am drawing blanks! she is relatively mobile still but tires easily, enjoys a drink,is a bit rubbish at taking care of her house, and survives mainly on sandwhiches ( she is a woman after my own heart tbf ) google just threw up suggestions of spending time with elderly relatives, which i do with her anyway. i pop round to see her every week, the kids ring her regularly, we take it in turns to treat each other to half a pint of Guinness and a plate of fish n chips once a month or so, so i am looking for material suggestions. so, any ideas? and wat are you buying your elder relatives this christmas?